(Closed) New to the site, just engaged, confused and stressed already boooo!

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
4046 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

First, welcome to the bee!

Realistically, how many of the 110 guests will come if you have the wedding in SL? Can you make a list and maybe only about half the guests would be able to attend since it’s international travel.

Although you may not want to travel back to the UK, if most of your family is there it may be the best bet for having them attend. 


Why is it not possible to just have a smaller, more intimate wedding in Dubai?

Post # 4
13012 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Welcome to the Hive!

First.  Deep breath.  Calm down, and just enjoy being engaged for a little bit!

Like the PP said, is it likely that all your guests will actually travel all the way to Sri Lanka?  It’s a really long trip, and very expensive, so you may not get the attendance you’re expeccting.  Some of the Bees on the Destination Wedding boards may be able to give you a better estimate about the attendance at their weddings. 

Until you decide where the venue will be, tell anyone who asks if they’re invited that you haven’t made the geust list yet.  You don’t want to get into the awkward position of telling someone that they’re invited, and then later, realizing you don’t have space for them.

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