(Closed) New to this site, waiting!!

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
6248 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 1900

Welcome to the Hive!

Nine years? You’re a saint! I had to wait 7 and it was torture some days.

Are you changing your mind on the style ring you want because there are financial issues, or because you think it will spur him to propose quicker?

Post # 5
Member
211 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Welcome welcome…and welcome to waiting lol. My SO and I are big into charity and minimalism. A ring that requires payments upon payments just seemed wrong to us. I believe a ring should reflect not just the wearer but the relationship it stands for! Good luck!

Post # 6
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@sa.to.sb.soon:  Welcome! 😀 

You are quite a lovely woman for waiting that long! I think a simple band is beautiful and I’m excited to see what he actually gets for you when your name is off the list! 😉 

Post # 7
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64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I can understand what your going through. I was with my Fiance for 8 years (not including high school were we met) and it was just torture waiting for my proposal. The more I pushed the more he seemed to resist. I finally got to the point were I backed off and let him decide how and when and less than 2 months later he proposed! I say just give it time and be patient and it will happen sooner than you think!!

Post # 9
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597 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

@sa.to.sb.soon:  I hate diamonds and still sometimes slow down and stop to look at a ring in the jewlery window. They are rather blinding, I’m glad you’ve come around to this fresh new outlook! 😀 

See you around! 

Post # 10
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331 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@sa.to.sb.soon:

Wow, I came here after reading your post on my “introduction” post and we really are similar. My “booger” did the same thing when I hinted around –“oh that’s not gonna happen for like 3 years or so” hence the reason I was wondering if he still remembered our next summer talk! haha

I also have had a recent epiphany about the ring being a symbol and that I do not need a super fancy or expensive ring. It’s not like I was ever looking at a super-gaudy ring in the first place, but I recently (last night) hinted that I do not even care if it is an actual diamond. While that would be FANTASTIC, I do not need or expect any specific ring. I was trying to tread lightly in case he already bought a ring – I didn’t want him to doubt any recent purchases! haha

But happy waiting to you! Hopefully it comes quickly!

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