(Closed) New waiting bee!

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1144 posts
Bumble bee

@thebiz53:  First, welcome to the bee! Secondly I feel you on all aspects of your post. Here’s what I’ve found out about men…They like to have everything in order before they get on with their life. My SO wants to be fiscally sound before we get married. I know he has a diamond, but we’re going to save for a setting, but he thinks we should pay off our credit card debt before buying a setting because then we’ll be able to afford our wedding with no debt. As much as I really respect that he’s looking out for our future, part of me is like you (the bigger part) and wants him to get down on one knee already & pop that question!

The waiting bees are very helpful and will support you!

Post # 4
150 posts
Blushing bee

@thebiz53:  Welcome! We have a similar love story 🙂 I know waiting eats at your mind sometimes, but it looks like you’re both at an extremely critical and fuzzy time in life so all you can do is support him. It will just bring him so much closer to you!


@braverbeating:  same with my SO. We’re going for a sapphire, and he knows his clown car of a family is going to bust on him for not getting a diamond so he’s trying to go for a Kate Middleton-sized rock (not literally, but up there) to keep them quiet. Not that I’m complaining but of course there are times when I just want to say do it already! LOL.

Post # 5
1144 posts
Bumble bee

@NinjaWings:  I’ve told SO I would have been more than okay with a sapphire as its my birthstone, but I think it’s important to him to get me a traditional stone…which I’m more than okay with as well!

Post # 7
314 posts
Helper bee

Hi! Welcome to the Bee!! 

Definitely make sure he’s comfortable financially enough to take care of you and can save so that you guys can make at least most of your dreams come true. If I were you, I’d at least start looking at some of the things I like as far as a wedding goes, so that in the event he becomes financially stable, he will ask and you will know. 

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