(Closed) New Waiting Bee (kind of long)

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee

welcome to the hive! you’ll find plenty of good support and a good kick in the pants when you need it here. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 4
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Sugar bee

Welcome- you know it WILL happen before this year is out so keep that in your mind when you have your hard days.

Post # 6
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Oh girl….i know the position you are in! I just married a few weeks ago and i waited……get this….6 years!!

At year 4 i was exactly where you where and he still made me wait 2 more…..that being said usually i think the “Waiting” thing is kinda being pushy…but not if you have been together for as long as you have.

Good luck and i hope it happens soon….I dont know too many men who made their ladies wait as long as mine made me (or women who would be willing for so long!) So Im sure your proposal will come!

I too got sick of people meeting new partners and marrying right before our eyes and STILL waiting. I got to a point where i told him I could not go to anymore weddings because it was painful to me…and that i refused to push him into marriage…but some things were too hard to bear.

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

You will get a lot of support on here…not just from the other waiting bees, but also the engaged and married ones who have been in your shoes. Fiance and I were together for almost 6 years when he proposed and when we get married we will have been together almost 7 1/2 years. So I know all of the feelings you are having! This is a great place for venting and for getting great advice. Welcome!

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Haha!!! Oh I know the feeling of hearing girlfriends complain and being like “yeah well i have you beat on the waiting game girl!

 

 

Post # 10
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@ms.oregon.state: Your story sound very familiar to me!  Boyfriend and I have also been together a little over 4 years and he promised a proposal  before the end of this year.  We are both 29 (or I am almost 29- will be in July) and we too have seen many couples start dating after us and get engaged (and married) already!

Post # 12
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Helper bee

Welcome ๐Ÿ™‚ How exciting! I too hope to become engaged by the end of the year, boyfirend and I have been together 11 years! and I’ve been “waiting” for about 1.5 yrs.. ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 13
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

Yes…..only HALF joking!!!

jazinlove….omg….you have us all beat! I hope you are young!

 

Post # 14
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Helper bee

I just turned 25 ๐Ÿ™‚ We have been together forever but it’s still very exciting to think about the next step for us. We always knew we were going to get married so I feel a bit silly getting so excited about a proposal..lol

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I just had to repspond because we’re in really similar boats except it’s going to be our SEVEN year anniversary really soon. Good lord.

I’m 29 as well!

He recently said he sees us getting married next year and that he would probably propose pretty soon this year. That all came up because I realized if he waited another year to propose and we waited a year toget married we’d be getting married on or near our NINE year anniverary.

(Sorry for all the caps, it’s just when I type it out I realize how freaking long it’s been.)

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