(Closed) NewBee and Waiting :)

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Worker bee

@future_mrs_s:  Welcome!! I totally understand trying to keep quiet it’s so hard! I feel like even if I accidentally mention something random and innocent in passing I feel like he’s taking it as me bugging him! It’s hard but it’s easier when you’re on here and reading people’s posts and have a lot of support from other bees who are waiting too! Hopefully your wait won’t be too long! 🙂

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I go to the gym. Helps me stay busy and wears down that extra nagging/emotional energy.

Post # 5
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Blushing bee

Welcome! Although we haven’t done anyofficial planning, I have done a lot of “pre-planning”. I have been waiting to some degree for about a year now. Glad to have you visibly in the hive! Can’t wait to hear about your engagement soon!

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

I second the gym suggestion…it helps with the frustration and hey, you’re working on your wedding body lol. Also, I make a conscious effort to be thankful about having a healthy relationship…regardless of ring status.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@cyclingchick:  Love this. Healthy relationships are worth so much more than any ring.

Post # 9
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Worker bee

@cyclingchick totally agree. That is one thing that helps me is knowing that whether or not there’s a ring on my finger, I have a great man who loves me to death and we have an amazing happy relationship. It will happen when it happens and in the meantime we just enjoy each other. 

Post # 10
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Busy bee

I go to the gym as well so I’ll third this suggestion.  It really helps me keep my center, work out my issues, and just generally makes me a happier person. 

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It’s hard to keep quiet, but now I just make a conscious effort to not say anything too much. It’s okay to talk about what you want, but I generally try to keep the talk to once a week at a max.

Now that I will be engaged by the end of the week (oh my gosh), it’s been even harder. I just try to remember that my time will come, and just to absorb what my life is without the title for right now.

Post # 12
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: February 2013

Welcome to the hive. It’s a pain in the .. trying to keep it shut but it’ll be worth it in the end.

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