(Closed) Newbee…kind of.

posted 6 years ago in Encore
Post # 3
1183 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I’m not in that situation, but I think you should do what feels right for you and your fiance at the time.

Honestly, most guys I know were pretty excited about our wedding (even for a first wedding) because we went to Vegas for Destination Wedding, did it really traditional in that we found a nice chapel and people wore suits….but we also had a tons of fun weekend with close friends. I just never wanted a big affair with the giant reception, etc. You will know whatyou want when the time comes. <3

Post # 5
235 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@Bazinga:  I had over 225 people at my first wedding (it sounded about like how yours went- downhill fast), and this time we are going to have about 80.  Just close family and friends, people who are happy for us and won’t be all judgy that it’s an “encore” wedding.  It’s still going to be beautiful and special, but not the circus it was last time!

Post # 6
513 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

I’m an Encore, encore bride!!! and actually posted about this kind of subject a couple of weeks ago here is the thread:


I hated my BIG first wedding and this time arround we are having a very small Destination Wedding wedding, but no matter what you choose for us we have still found that ‘some’ not all will still judge you for whatever type of wedding you have!  as the old saying goes “You can’t please everyone all of the time’!

Have the wedding YOU both will be happy with 🙂

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