(Closed) newlywed blues?

posted 7 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
7695 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

What distance is between you two? I have actually been feeling blah but I dont think its because of marriage I think its because the cold and winter weather has just been dragging on and Im ready to be able to be outside and enjoy life more. I feel more cooped up in this time of year and I hate it!! Also, we have a lot of things going on in late April and into May and throughout the rest of the year but we just dont have much going on right now. I am planning a surprise date for Darling Husband next Saturday to try to get excited about something! I have also been slowly redoing our office/3rd bedroom so I have that to keep me busy. Have you guys gone on a date in a while?

Post # 4
245 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I felt blah after the wedding because I felt almost let down – like i had been planning and so busy for so many months, and had been to so many events for the wedding (the shower and bacheloreet) and then all of the sudden it stopped. No more gifts, no more emails from people being so exicted, no more stuff to plan out. It was like a post-Christmas let down.

So I think it can be normal, and the fact that it’s winter isn’t helping. Do you exercise? Can you plan a trip? I started training for a marathon to keep me busy and stay active. Can you join a team or a group or something? And yes, try to keep connected with your hubby!

Post # 6
1573 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

I had wedding withdrawal, til this day, I ask my hubby do you want to get married again, as in next year  or in 5 years  it was so much fun; but he tells me you can only get married once, true, very true

Post # 7
94 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Yeah…things are up and down for me. The honeymoon stage is definitely over. Reality has kicked in. We never used to argue at all and now it seems like at least once or twice a week, there’s some kind of disagreement. 

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