- 11 years ago
- Wedding: September 2009
It does sound bad. Maybe you two need to just make sure you schedule some time together? Right now it sounds like he is so busy there would be no time for you. My husband and I got married 4 months ago and since then have made a point of having a weekly date night – just for us. It’s Thursday nights and we know that is our night to spend together for dinner and going out to a movie or something. Do we spend other nights together during the week? Yes. But, Thursdays are guaranteed to be our night even if the rest of the week is really busy. It gives us each something to look forward to all week when work and school keep us busy.
I also think it seems wrong that your husband goes to events where spouses aren’t allowed. He must have a lot of single guy friends. I guess I’m lucky in that all of my friends have significant others or spouses who are also friends with my husband. So we all hang out as couples all the time. I would see if you could do something about the “no spouse” rule. That just seems rude and inconsiderate. Your husband’s friends should understand that you are married now and your husband can’t continue living the single life.