(Closed) Newlywed—second thoughts-We can not have a conversation without arguing

posted 5 years ago in Married Life
Post # 31
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1581 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

Please tell me you had a pre-nup? You can save yourself and him a lot of heartache if you did. Not trying to sound cruel, just the logic side of me is really hoping for you.

Post # 32
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134 posts
Blushing bee

Girl… you married down… he’s not good enough for you.

Post # 33
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6107 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

acglandorf:  this was my first thought after reading she has 2 businesses. I hope she protected herself because the way she describes this guy doesn’t make me think he wouldn’t go after the money.

Post # 34
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825 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: Local Resort

T,

You always knew everything the ladies here have said.  You were just HOPING for something different.  The tears are good, it’s a process.  No amount of reading what anyone says is going to make it worse.

There is a silver lining.  You know your self worth, and you are taking steps to make yourself happy again.  You were never NOT whole with him, the only difference is you have regained the part of yourself you chose to give.  Time to heal up, eat some oreos and ice cream in your favorite pajamas, and call the bestie for some wine.  And don’t give him SQUAT.

I love this line-don’t go away mad, just go away!!! We have your back sister 😉

Post # 35
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9611 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2015

TraceeG77:  good for you- stick to your guns!

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