- 9 years ago
- Wedding: May 2009
I’m so sorry you didn’t enjoy your wedding! I think in terms of being let down by your vendors or your Bridal Party, I’d say just let it go. What’s done is done. If you get asked about it or write a vendor review, feel free to be honest. But there isn’t much to be gained from confronting things that happened in the past. I don’t think that will make you feel any better.
But you are only focused on what went wrong. When you get back pics from your photogs, I bet there were tons of great memories you left out. In your post of all the things that went wrong, you still said you had never seen that kind of emotion from your groom as you saw during your ceremony, and that you were moved by the vows he wrote you…those are probably the most important and special moments any bride could ask for at her wedding! When you look back on your wedding on your 1st, 10th, 20th anniversary, those moments you mentioned about your groom will continue to be your fondest and sweetest memories. And all the others small things that bugged you at the time will fade or become humorous fodder over time.