(Closed) Newlyweds at our Reception

posted 9 years ago in Reception
Post # 3
276 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Are you having a welcome dinner?  Maybe you could make a toast to the newlyweds then.

Post # 4
815 posts
Busy bee

I don’t know if they would be embarassed by this but could you play a song for them at the reception after your first dance?  It would be a nice way to let them have a “first dance” and wouldn’t be too hard to accomplish. 

Post # 6
407 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

what a great sister you are! most people i know would just be annoyed that someone else is stealing their thunder but you’re excited and want to do something sweet for them! What about getting them a couples massage or something private so that way, they know you acknowledge them

Post # 7
7053 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2010

First of all i think you’re a FABULOUS friend, sister and bride!

So many people these days worry about thunder stealing and I think you’re incredible for embracing the love of those near you and sharing their joy with your joy!!!

Hive round of applause here!!!! woo hoo!!!!!!!

Ok.  Here’s what I’d do!  I would introduce them and say something sweet at the rehersal dinner and then at the reception you could have something really fun and do what I did for a couple friend of mine at THEIR couples wedding shower I hosted several years back!


it’s loads of fun, provides FREE entertainment, and is a fun and hilarious way to toast the newlyweds!  You could even have as “prizes” mimentos of Aruba for them !  You and your H could play against them or if there’s another newlywed couple (say within a year of marriage) you would have them play also!

We did this with 3 couples and had 5 questions chosen for them to answer.  They were all “g” rated questions but funny ones.  For our last question, we decided to FOREGO a question and have the groom peform a “carribbean interpretive dance” and use for props his choice of props we had for him: an umbrella hat for the beach, grass skirt, coconut bra, dreadlock wig, and sunglasses.  We also let him draw from a crystal bowl to pick their dance tune(from our ipod and we had 3:  hawaii five o theme, Stir it Up by Bob Marley, and last but not least, the macarena!

The winner wore the sunglasses, grass skirt, coconut bra, and the umbrella hat but for “special effect” used the printed menu I had lying around and rolled it up and created his own “carribbean smoking paraphenalia” if you know what I mean and did that at the end of the song ‘Stir if Up’ for dramatic effect!  (of course it was not real).

We did this after everybody btw had a few cocktails and it was to this day, the most fun that the couple had during their whole engagement and wish we could have done this at their wedding reception!  An island wedding and reception would be the perfect place to have this fun contest!

Post # 8
2562 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I am not sure about how you could honor them … maybe ask them about having a “first dance” as well at your wedding (then they could pick the song), have them at the “sweetheart table” with you guys …

I just really want to applaud you for being so enthusiastic and happy for them, I know some brides would be freaking out about having the attention stolen away, and I am so happy then you aren’t feeling that way and want to share the joy with them!

Post # 9
1064 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2009

I have to ask you where your getting married, Fiance and I are going to Aruba for our honeymoon and we are so excited, I was just curious about your wedding.

Post # 10
2681 posts
Sugar bee

I think you have a great idea about the honeymoon package.  I dont have many ideas but I want to say what a great sister you are!  It is so nice to see people on here that are happy their sibling/friend/etc is getting married so close to them and not distraught over it.  It is so nice that you want to do something to acknowledge their marriage at your own reception.

I love bellangas idea about the Newleywed Game too 🙂

Post # 11
399 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

You are an awesome sister!

Maybe, instead of tossing the bouquet (if you were planning to do that), give the bouquet to your brother’s wife and say a little something about them and their marriage.  Plus, I like the idea of playing “their” song for them to dance to.

Post # 12
4480 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: March 2010 - Calamigos Ranch

A toast, and a second, different cake, are two things I can think of. How nice of you to think of them at your own wedding!

Post # 13
2205 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

I thnk a toast and a special dance are both great ideas!  You’re so sweet to be including them at your wedding…lots of other brides would be upset to be getting married so close together!

Also very sweet of you to upgrade their room!  What a great sister.  Hope both the weddings are lovely!

Post # 14
1135 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I second the bouquet giving and the first dance song. One of my BMs will be celebrating her 1 year anniversary on my wedding day. To date, they have not had a reception or party, or anything. They simply got married at city hall on a Friday afternoon with just them and their parents. I planned on playing “their song” (so much as a song that means a lot to them) and letting them have a solo dance. But, the solo dance is not their style. Instead, I’m taking note of ALL of my BMs first dance songs and making sure they get played into the rotation. Most of the songs are fairly recognizable, and I like that each couple will get to have their own moment with each other when their song is played without having to be the center of attention.

How wonderful that they are choosing to celebrate with you in Aruba as well! You must have an AWESOME relationship with your brother!

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