(Closed) Newlyweds…. Have you ever noticed…

posted 8 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Helper bee

Darling Husband says the same thing! When I’m with him he flashes his ring at women no matter where we are (ever at the Burger King drive-thru), if they’re being a little too friendly. I think it’s adorable, since before we got married he didn’t even think about other women flirting with him, he just ignored them. Now he gets all defensive! Too funny!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

my husband is foxy and seems to always get attention from sales people, haha.  Though I’m sure that his shiny new ring does catch peoples’ eyes.  I have heard that idea, though and think you’re on to something!

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2009

My hubs is frickin’ hawt and he gets hit on a lot, usually by gay guys. BUT. Here lately, yes, the women have been getting a little too upclose to him. This one chick totally gave him the walk by smirk flirt the other day, while I was standing right next to him! I looked at her back sternly as she walked away, but I don’t think it was very effective. :/

Post # 6
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2009

I think it’s because there seriously are skanks out there that actually look for married guys to flirt with or, even worse hook up with. You know.. because it’s more of a challenge or some psychological BS like that.

If anyone tries to steal MY man, I’ll punch her in the face!

tee hee.

 

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

lols at layla “I looked back at her sternly”. Not yet married but just chiming in, women like challenges, and married men are a challenge because they’re unattainable. Most women are respectful of this fact but others are ruthless and don’t care. 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2009

My husband sends the girls in his office into giggles whenever he mentions his “wife.”  And he’s definitely mentioned that he gets different reactions with his new shiny ring.  I wonder how much of it is the “oh, this guy is not a threat” at least in the customer service industry.  Like waitresses aren’t keeping their guards up so they don’t get hit on all the time?

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

my fiance tells me he knows its a chick magnet, oh geesh!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee

Yeah my husband was happy to get a ring for the same reason – it’s a chick magnet according to his married friends. Apparently because he’s obviously not a commitment phobe? (Don’t know how this works, because if a married man hits on you in a bar, he’s obviously not that committed either!) Funny how mens brains work sometimes!

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Our neighbor got married and he said that since he’s had the ring on women having been eyeing and coming on to him more than ever so maybe there is some truth to it lol

Post # 12
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2011

Unfortunately, there are a lot of women that look only for married men. They consider them “safe”. These women are not looking for a comittment. They are just looking for the challenge.

Post # 14
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2010

My Darling Husband and I were just talking about this the other day! He thinks it is because women feel safer that married men aren’t thinking about getting down their pants. Or married men have a confidence that unmarried men do not. I have heard from some pilots that they look for other marrieds to have an affair with. That way both have something to lose. Isn’t that horrible?

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee

for my Darling Husband, I don’t think it’s the ring, but just the fact that I buy all his clothes now, got him to start working out, and get regular haircuts  😉

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I feel like married men are probably sort of attractive to single women because being married means they can make a long term committment.. which is something so many women are looking for!! haha it makes sense!

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