Post # 1
Miracle of miracles…my sister’s Fiance repaid me the money he borrowed for her e-ring…in full….it was sent to my office in a non-descript envelope with no real information so we spent about an hour trying to figure out what the hell it was for…but then I realized.
It’s over, I’ve been repaid and it feels nice…our relationship has been completely slaughtered as a result of this…and that should be sad, but I don’t really feel sad….I feel…..like it’s the ending of a tv episode, where everything gets wrapped up and put away in nice little packages, you don’t know what’s going to happen next week, but for now everything is in it’s place, and that’s enough.
Post # 3
@Nona99: I’m glad to hear it was finally resolved. So sad your relationship suffered so badly as a result of it.
Post # 4
I’m glad you’ve got some resolution finally. Hopefully now your relationships can recover over time.
Post # 5
@Nona99: Wow! That’s great. Too bad it had to come to all this, though.
Where are you planning to go from here with regard to their wedding? Have you officially backed out of it yet? Do you think this is their way of keeping you in it? Is this too many questions? Lol.
Post # 6
Gld you’ve gotten repaid. Doesn’t family drama suck sometimes? 🙂
Post # 7
Too bad it had to come to this, but glad you got your money 🙂
Post # 8
@Sunfire: Well…considering that I’m running on three hours of sleep and today is just too weird already without this particular little wrinkle…I’ve decided to take a page from their book and do nothing…since in essence, I feel nothing….and I might just continue to do nothing for a very long time.
I feel no obligation to be a straightforward and honest person when that’s not what I’m dealing with AND it will only stir up more trouble than I can tolerate without the aid of an interveneous martini….
Mr. 99 and I are looking forward to a pretty calm, snowy weekend, I’ve got silks class on Sunday, and I might meet my Boy/Girlfriend for a lunch or something somewhere in there since him and his Girlfriend are on the skids….
Other than that…I’m going to deposit the money, book a second night at our favorite inn for our 5 year anniversary next month (GO US!) and call it good…..
It would be better if YOU lived near here…then WE could do something…but we can’t…..*sigh*
Post # 9
@Nona99: Sounds like a good plan – leave the ball in their court. After all, they created this situation, you didn’t.
I wish you were here, too! We could go shoe shopping together. 🙂
Post # 10
That’s fantastic! and weird! How bizarre that she’d just drop if off like that… but, yay for being repaid. I’m certain this isn’t the end, but thankful this episode has a neat little bow.
Post # 11
@Sunfire: …I totally need shoes too….it would have been so very perfect if we just lived near each other….stupid geographic locations and the boundaries of physics and time….interefering with my fun AND FEET
Post # 12
I’m glad you got your money back! How weird, though. :
Post # 13
@vorpalette: Generally, I’m feeling weird about it…just mailed it with no return address, no letter, no card, just to me, at my office, a money order with an illegible signature…so if that doesn’t say, “Fuck You.” I don’t know what would.
BUT, now that ring is theirs all theirs, and in spite of being angry with me, I hope that feels good for them, it’s important and symbolic and shit….so yeah….that should be their ring, not mine.
I’m just keeping my eyes on the prize for next month…going to have a nice relaxing time at THIS place…
Post # 14
Glad you got your money back. Wish things turned out differently for you!
Your few nights away looks like fun. Enjoy that!
Post # 15
He probably felt ashamed. Oh well water under the bridge and you know to never do that again! I am happy you got your cash 🙂
Post # 16
It’s Monday morning and a little light relief goes a long way! Apologies @Nona99 if I wasn’t supposed to do this but I couldn’t help it and the result has tickled my funnybone no end
So I Google image searched the photo of the inn and this came up as a “very similar image”!!
Happy Monday Bees!