Let’s see. My Mother-In-Law was complaining about my uncle because he apparently couldn’t speak english really well and that we could have gotten someone who could speak better english. (He came up during the ceremony and wanted to thank everyone (in english) and then he wanted to thank the non-english people in another language. It was short… like 5 min.
That was the big issue.
One of my bm complained that I was asking to much of her because I asked my BMs to fold programs, assemble placecards, assemble some decorations and a few other things.
My family thought my Mother-In-Law was very arrogant. Some thought she was racist against us. And some of my BMs told me that Mother-In-Law was rude to them.
Still annoyed that 2 of my Bridesmaid or Best Man dropped out two days before the wedding. One was sick and the other was in an accident. Both reasonable reasons to not come to my wedding but both of them told me in a text. Really? Couldn’t they have picked up the phone to tell me something this important.
Any way, that was the bad.
As for the good.
A bunch of people told me that it was one of the best weddings they went to and that it was a great time.
(one last bad) Mother-In-Law and his family expected our wedding to be not as elegant as it was. At the end, they were very happy at how well it turned out. (WTF?)
People loved my diy centerpieces. People loved my dress and told me I looked stunning. People loved my cake and it was really good.
DH took medication to calm him down before the ceremony because he was nervous. That interacted with the 5 drinks he had, so half way through our reception, it looked like he was drunk and he definitely acted drunk.
Oh, I was on time to the church. Big relief. Church and reception looked great.
I had a bit of a snapfu (sp?) a week before the wedding with my diy bm bouquets but i went to an alternative flower and it came out great!
I had a great time at my wedding. It was lots of fun!
All and all…. I thought my wedding was great. All of the hard work paid off. What I didn’t want to hear about was all the stuff after the wedding happened.
Still need to tell myself that I did a great job planning my wedding. People thought I spent 25K when I only spent 15K. Yay! Just gotta keep thinking of the postive and some how erase the bad.