Post # 32
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Busy bee
I will be sleeping in my bed at my mom’s house. I sleep so well there and its always been part of the wedding ideal to me that I would get ready in my old room. Also I am going through a religious purity ritual and I am technically not supposed to have any contact with my Fiance for 7 days before the wedding because of that. I don’t want to not see our dog for over 3 weeks (honeymoon directly after the weding) so I will probably fudge that, but move home like 3 days before. He will come up probably the night before the wedding and stay at a hotel.
Post # 33
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Buzzing bee
Me & my Fiance are staying in this house rental near our wedding, and then he’s waking up & leaving in the AM so I can get ready with my ladies!!! I’m so tired of people telling me “BUT YOU CAN’T SLEEP TOGETHER THE NIGHT OF!!” I can do whatever I want! And nowadays, traditions are broken a lot. We already live together so it’s really not a big deal, plus he’s leaving super early! 🙂 So excited!
Post # 34
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Bumble bee
I just did a poll on this too! I still don’t know what I’m going to do. Fiance and I are staying separately no matter what because I want the first time he sees me on our wedding day to be when I start walking down the aisle.
I’m not getting married where I live, so I’ll either be staying in a hotel or in a friend’s house (getting married in my hometown, so I still know a lot of people there even though neither my parents nor I live there anymore.) I don’t think its strange for all the bridal party to stay together – I’ve had a lot of friends get hotel rooms or rent a bed & breakfast to do a girl’s sleepover the night before. Sounds like fun to me!
Post # 35
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Helper bee
im actually staying in our house with my Fiance…i just told him he better wear some sleeping mask and sneak out EARLY in the am to go and get ready at his parents house. i feel much more comfortable to sleep in our bed the night before and then get ready in my own space!
Post # 36
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Busy bee
- Wedding: December 2010 - Al Cielo / La Laguna
We are staying together in our room. We plan to get up together, have a great breakfast and a massage on the beach. I don’t think I would want to spend the morning of our wedding apart.
Post # 37
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Blushing bee
not sure exactly how it will work for us, but i would prefer being away from my fiance for the night before the wedding. i know we will both be excited about the next day, and i think it will make the preparations more fun and exciting if we are apart from the morning on…plus, i can wake up as early as i need to without bothering him. 🙂
Post # 38
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Honey Beekeeper
My husband and I stayed together. I didn’t believe in the seeing eachother before being bad luck (especially since we had a first look and everything). It was nice being in my own bed.
Post # 39
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Bumble bee
We’re getting married in the town that we live in and we already live together. We’re going to stay at home that night. For me, it would be weird to go stay somewhere else when we already live together or to pay for an extra night at a hotel. I’m looking forward to talking about our excitement and waking up and having breakfast together, like normal. We’re also getting married in the evening, so we have plenty of time to meet up with everyone and get ready in the late morning/early afternoon. I’ll be getting with my girls that day at a hotel and my Fiance will get ready with his guys at our house.
Post # 40
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Sugar bee
My mom and I will be staying in a cottage right next to the ceremony/reception venue!
Post # 41
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Busy Beekeeper
Iw ill be getting a suite with two joined rooms for me and my ladies.
Post # 42
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Bumble bee
My MatronOH and her hubby just bought a house in the same city we’re getting married, so all of my girls and I are going to stay there. I’m pretty psyched about that!! It’ll be fun :]
<3
Post # 43
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Busy bee
Our wedding is 2 hours from where we live so we will stay in the hotel for 3 nights.. I plan on staying with Fiance but my mom thinks that’s wrong.. i plan on waking up, kicking him out, and taking over our suite with our Bridal Party. I want to be with him the night before to calm nervees and spend time together.
Post # 44
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Bumble bee
I’ll be staying at my parents’ house and Fiance will be at the hotel. it’s the simplest set up.
Post # 45
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Newbee
I’m hoping to get a hotel room for my bridesmaids and I (since we’re all from out of town). I’m excited for a little bit of time to relax with the girls and have my last bit of single lady fun the night before the wedding.