Nightmare

posted 6 months ago in Engagement
Post # 31
Member
236 posts
Helper bee

 

katiebx :  He has 0 regard for your feelings. Absolutely 0. He is just wrapping all his supposed nice-ness up in a little bow. Cancelling vendors without formally asking you? Dick move on his part. I hope you keep the ring, resell it for some $ and do something nice for yourself. You deserve it after dealing with this guy. 

Post # 33
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1116 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2019 - USA

I’m sorry if this comes across harsh, but I just hate reading about situations where the guy is dangling marriage in front of a woman’s face and then backtracking. It makes me so mad and you deserve so much more than this. 

When you propose and marry to someone, it means you accept them no matter what their past transgressions were. Regardless of what you may have done in the past, if he wanted to marry you he should have addressed any concerns well before this point. It’s not up to you to “prove” yourself- it’s up to him to either accept you as you are or let you go if he’s not willing to support you while you work through your issues. That’s also part of marriage- helping support each other and becoming better people because of it. He’s just too much of a coward to just tell you to your face that he isn’t willing to walk with you through this. 

Post # 34
Member
948 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2019 - City, State

sunburn :  That’s my thinking also. He is gaslighting her bigtime. He knows about her anxiety and he is doing this to her what a f%&cking jerk. 

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