(Closed) No baby invited

posted 9 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 31
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304 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

@Dr Pepper:  Whoa, such a lighthearted post has turned into a debate!! I’m just going to go ahead and say congraulations Dr_Pepper!

I am now 8 months away from my wedding so hopefully I’m in the clear too! 🙂

Post # 32
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359 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I meant no offense by my original post. Just saying it is more common for people to have children before marriage than people who are having kids after marriage it’s not wrong it just is. Just surprising is all. You would think it would be the other way around. Sorry if it was taken the wrong way but seriously sometimes people analyze and read into things way too much.

Post # 33
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2008 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Yay!!!

Congrats on not getting knocked up girl!!!!

Post # 34
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229 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

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@j_jaye:  There can be a lot wrong having a baby and not being married to some girls on here. Are you considering their cultural backgrounds? It’s not cool. They can be disowned. It’s something we cant judge because we dont fully understand.

Post # 35
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9208 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

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@80sbee:  I agree that was my point- that we can’t judge. It is a personal choice when to bring a baby into the world and a lot of factors come into it all of which are the personal choice of the individual including going against cultural or societal norms.

Post # 36
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2699 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Bizarrely I had to do a pregnancy test last night….I couldn’t work out how it would have happened but somehow my period is 2 weeks late! I’d have shi1t myself if it had been positive with 5 months to go given the expensive, tight dress i bought and the honeymoon i would no longer be able to go on so yeah, hi frigging 5!!

Post # 37
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3622 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

OP, I keep thinking the same thing! But I really don’t want to be pregnant and showing at my wedding. I would be mortified!

Post # 38
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8027 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

This is a funny post.  I like it (besides the threadjacking I mean).

Post # 39
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730 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@Dr Pepper:  I have a year and a half to go, heres to hoping no babies during that time! I would still fit in my dress cause its an empire waist but Ive always dreamed of getting married before we had a baby, idk why just cause. I am up for a honeymoon baby though! Cheers to you OP!

Post # 40
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4282 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Congrats to all that are glad to be in the clear!!! I have secretly celebrated every visit from Aunt Flow since I began having sex. Most of our friends have had children before getting married. Nothing is wrong with that. I think all the threadjackers talking about offending/STD’s/etc. should keep things to themselves on such a light hearted post! The girl is excited! CONGRATS!!

Post # 42
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234 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

@Dr Pepper:  Right there with you! I thought for sure we would have a little 1 on the way, but alas….we got that surprise 2 months after we said “I Do”. I don’t know about anyone else, but I felt very happy with not being pregnant or having a baby before we got married. My sister was 4 months along when she got married, and my brother married a lady who already had 2 kids of her own. I was very proud of myself. lol

Congrats on the upcoming wedding. 🙂

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