- katrose
- 5 years ago
From an etiquette standpoint: It is not appropriate to tell your guests how to dress because everyone has their own style and might feel insulted that you expect them to dress a certain way. However, you do still need two people to stand up for you as witnesses, so I would let your maid/matron of honor and best man know what your wedding colors are. Afterwards, you can show your pictures to your maid/matron of honor and have her decide which style of dress she likes the best and the two of you can decide together on colors.