(Closed) No bridesmaids no family nor friends

posted 4 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i’ve been to weddings with no bridal party.  actually, my cousins wedding that i went to last weekend had no bridal party.  i didn’t find it odd at all.

 

 

Post # 3
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

 You don’t need to have bridesmaids for your wedding at all but maybe you should branch out and make friends in general.  It’s not healthy to have such a large amount of your happiness and social interaction depending on your FH. 

Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: City, State

We won’t be having a wedding party. I don’t have to worry about bridesmaids dresses, coordinating people’s schedules or anything. It will be lovely without them (and would be lovely with them if I planned on having bridesmaids).

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

My sister was my Maid/Matron of Honor but I didn’t have bridesmaids. It’s absolutely not necessary to have them in order to get married! 

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2019

My long time best friend had no bridal party and she could have asked me! I dont think its weird because its less stressfull.

 

Question- Does your Fiance have groomsmen in mind? Is he okay omitting the wedding party?

Post # 7
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

We didn’t have a bridal party and it worked out just fine.  I don’t think anyone thought it was odd, and if they did no one said anything.  Besides, ceremonies are usually the quick part, it’s the reception that everyone remembers! 

Post # 8
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7867 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

I attended a beautiful wedding this weekend with no wedding party. Not necessary and much less stress!

Post # 10
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Sugar Beekeeper

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Aly101 : 

No  bridesmaids or wedding party at all is absolutely fine .

Feeling   ‘like a loser’ and having no  friends at all sounds not fine though. Is there anything   you can be doing better  to meet some people ? What about at work /college/uni  or wherever – are there any  clubs or associations etc? 

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017

Omit the wedding party entirely? If neither of you have bridesmaids or groomsmen then people will just figure you made a decision to not have a wedding party for whatever reason. If your Fiance has groomsmen and you don’t have bridesmaids they may wonder about it a little more. If he does want groomsmen perhaps they could be seated in the front row rather than standing up next to him. 

Post # 12
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Busy bee

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Aly101 :  everyone in my circle including me doesn’t enjoy being in a bridal party. Painful and expensive. No one likes being told to wear either. Call off the bridal party idea. Why are you a loser? I don’t have family and my friends are over weddings so I eloped to a tropical island with my husband and no one else. doesn’t make me a loser it makes me a bride who wants what she wants.

Post # 13
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Busy bee

Bee, I know we as women have been inundated with pictures of 10+ bridesmaids in a bridal party on Pinterest. Personally, I believe that being a bridesmaid is a honour that should be given to your closest, most supporting and dearest friends, and I find it hard to believe that someone can have such meaningful relationships with so many people (Not that it doesn’t always happen).

That being said, having a large bridal party is stressful. You have to run around all these women making sure that they have ordered their dress, making sure that they will attend the pre-wedding events and paying for all their accessories and bridal gifts, etc. It is a business. Plus, there will inevitably be a LOT of drama.

I attended a wedding this year where there was no bridal party, no groomsmen, best man or maid of honour, and I have to say I have been envious. I would have preferred if my wedding was the same way, though with a maid of honour and best man, but my Fiance really wanted to have his childhood friends standing with him. So now I have nearly 5 bridesmaids, nearly 5 groomsmen, 2 flower girls and a dog as a ring bearer.

Large wedding parties are not necessary. Nobody will judge you for it. That being said, I do agree with other posters that you should attempt to reach out and make friends for your own social and mental well-being. Humans are social animals.

Post # 14
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2017 - City, State

I didn’t have a wedding party and it was great. It removed an entire area of stress that typically exists with wedding planning. No one thought it was weird.

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