(Closed) No bridesmaids or MOH but will have best man?

posted 7 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2550 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I am having a Maid/Matron of Honor but Fiance isn’t having an official Bridesmaid or Best Man.  She is walking as well but will sit during the ceremony.  I am getting a bout for his best friend because he will be one of the witnesses along w/ my Maid/Matron of Honor.  I know some ppl will think its odd but that’s how it will be.

Post # 5
620 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Its your wedding and its up to you. People are doing all kinds of things now. The most important thing is that you 2 are comfortable with that and who cares what anyone else things(on this specific subject).

Post # 6
19 posts

It works, best man walks your mom down, while your dad gets you. However you need TWO witnesses to sign the license, so have someone sitting on the front row if you don’t want them in the party (you could have a MAN of honor if you’d like a guy?)

I cut all my maids (DRAMA FOR REAL) but kept my Maid of Honor and I also have a Man of Honor, Fiance has a Best Man. He doesn’t really know that many guys and some of my maids were uhhhh, questionable at best on reliability (money, time, stress-free wise) – it got to the point where I was about to ask a slightly racist friend to stand in and I’m black, so yeeeah. Cut it all! I’m not a fan of bachelorette or lingerie parties and I want my wedding to be ultra formal/elegant but I’m also very hands on (I’m making my own cake) so the less stress I have from maids, the better to craft my designs. Got my MoH’s dress and shoes in today, wedding is Sept 2012!

Post # 8
353 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I’m sure it’s fine 🙂 It’s your wedding and you should do what you feel happy with.


Oops, just saw your reply about being worried it will look funny. I wouldn’t think much of it at all at a wedding. But if it really bothers you, isn’t there anyone you could ask?

Post # 10
7385 posts
Busy Beekeeper

Good for you. Takes balls rather than caving in to pressure (self or external) to do something you know is not sittng right with you. Bravo.

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