No chance

posted 2 years ago in Waiting
Post # 2
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5759 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: July 2018

Yeep :  Have you talked about engagement? Is there anything to believe that the proposal was coming this week or is it just because you think the trip would have been romantic? 

Post # 3
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3712 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2014

You’re on a romantic trip in Italy. Excuse me while I play the world’s tiniest violin for you. Just enjoy the trip for what it is.. an amazing experience. Have you even discussed getting married and proposals? If not you set yourself up for disappointment.

Post # 4
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215 posts
Helper bee

Had you made a thread before your trip asking if he’s going to propose I would have told you to put it out of your head or else you will ruin your vacation! Which is definitely what happened. Years looking back on this you will laugh about how you thought he was going to propose infront of the fountain and instead was looking at a fish.

A few years back we went on a family trip to Spain. My brother told my sister to step out in the ledge of the famous church and when she turned around he was on one knee…… To take a picture. Lol she was upset but we laugh about it now. Chin up, it’s not the end of the world if it doesn’t happen in Italy. He might have some beautifully sentimental proposal planned when the time comes and you are going to feel silly you got so worked up.

Post # 5
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466 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2018

Maybe he didn’t want to do it because he knew you would have expected it.

But really You shouldn’t have. Now everytime you think of the trip you’re sad that it wasn’t the time he proposed. When you come  back and people ask how it was. you’ll mention how it was good but you aren’t engaged. 

Post # 6
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120 posts
Blushing bee

Yeep :  Awe, I remember your original post. I’m sorry it didn’t work out! Please don’t feel resentful! You were still fortunate enough to go on an amazing trip, in a beautiful location, with someone you love. 

Post # 7
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105 posts
Blushing bee

Do you want someone to propose because it was their idea, or your idea that you pushed them into? Give time, enjoy your moments together. You are in a beautiful place.

Post # 8
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2003 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

I was proposed to in my house. That was the most romantic proposal I could have dreamed of for us. It could still happen, just not there. 

Maybe you should just enjoy where you are, and when you get back talk to him about what you are feeling. 

Post # 9
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3292 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

What an amazing memories you’ve made! Maybe with the trip expenses he couldn’t afford a ring right now. That doesn’t mean you aren’t having a romantic vacation.

Post # 11
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1090 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2017

Yeep :  If he said the end of the year, then you have to give him that time. Relax and enjoy your vacation! It will happen :o)

Post # 13
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2003 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2018

If he said by the end of the year, you need to drop it and let it happen. 

Post # 15
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30 posts
Newbee

Maybe he will do it today since its your last day!! You never know. Plus there are FOUR months left in the year. Stay hopeful Bee, I know its coming for you!! 

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