(Closed) No Christmas proposal for me…

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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445 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Maybe he is throwing you off…but then again why don’t you just look at it that the best is yet to come. πŸ™‚ I know that’s easier said then done, but he is actively working on it..so if he doesn’t already have it and planned to surprise you by throwing you off, then he’s half way there. Hope you’ll be distracted with all the holiday cheers!

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I understand why you would be disappointed (although the possibility of him trying to really surprise you is still definitely there). I had waiting disappointment last week. Boyfriend took me on a cruise for our birthdays…I was sure it was going to happen…and it didn’t. He saw I was upset & ended up telling me that he doesn’t have a ring yet either, but he plans to propose sometime in the next 6 months. πŸ™

So I definitely understand your frustration: holidays seem like a perfect & romantic time to profess undying love & committment, and with those jewelry commercials, it makes it that much worse!

I’m sure it will happen for you soon, though. πŸ™‚
I bet it’s a lot sooner than you think!

Post # 5
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3587 posts
Sugar bee

Aww! Just think about it, soon enough he’ll ask and remember this may be your LAST unengaged Christmas and New Years. πŸ™‚

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Like you said… at least you know what is going on with it all.  And he is listening to what kind of ring you want!! Those are really good things, just remember it will happen!

Post # 7
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3304 posts
Sugar bee

I am sure it is coming soon and it will be exactly what you wanted- don’t be down too much about it !

Post # 8
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2104 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If he’s really not trying to throw you off, tell him to check into Natural Sapphire Company (www.thenaturalsapphirecompany.com) …we found they had a TON of setting options and are very friendly and reasonable with their custom work.  Hang in there!

Post # 9
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223 posts
Helper bee

@SadieBee:Ughhh me neither unless he’s REALLY trying to throw me off!  He was buying my stocking stuffers last night and didn’t know what to get and I said, “Well, I can think of something you can put in there.” and he said “I’m not putting a ring in your stocking, stop it!” and I dropped it but felt sad.  Later, I texted him saying, “Well at least I know now that it’s not coming and I can get over it because I’m legit sad.” and he ignored the text!  I didn’t bring it back up.  If it REALLLY wasn’t coming, I think he’d have reiterated that in a reply text… but him not saying ANYTHING still makes me a bit suspicious.  Not enough to get my hopes up though! :'(

Post # 10
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4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I completely understand your disappointment.  I have a feeling I’m going to be feeling it in about two days as well.  But on the bright side, he is looking for a ring and on top of that, the ring that you told him you wanted, which is really great πŸ™‚

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

You can always go in for an extended “disappointed hug” – he thinks he’s getting a hug because you’re happy, you use the time to hide your disappointed face and compose yourself πŸ˜›

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