(Closed) No Congratulations?

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Maybe she is expecting you to tell her directly. I usually dont reference things that I saw on facebook, if the person dosnt mention it to me directly I just carry on as normal

Post # 4
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3771 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 1999

It sounds like she is avoiding your engagement, which might be a difficult thing for her to hear about. It might remind her of loosing her brother and your moving on with your life (no judgement at all). If people bring it up around her be excited and share with them,  it sounds like the rest are all very excited for you.

Post # 5
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4324 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: January 1992

Don’t let her bother you. Obviously based on what you said, she isn’t your biggest fan, so why concern yourself with whether she has mused over your ring or engagement? 

Focus on the people that are truly happy for you, and that you genuinely love having in your life.

Post # 7
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Busy Beekeeper

I wouldn’t necessarily avoid the conversation about your engagement nor would I make a point to bring it up.  I’m assuming you are seeing her at some joint family type function or social gathering so chances are she and you won’t be spending time one on one.  It sounds like she has her set of issues with you and I’m guessing your happiness nor congratulating you on your happiness is on her radar, unfortunately.

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