(Closed) \"No Connection\" after an awesome month?

posted 4 years ago in Relationships
Post # 301
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1122 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Has it been a few days?  When do we get the update so we can see who was right?  

It would be so amazing if he would read this and we could tape his reaction…sigh.

Post # 302
Member
1167 posts
Bumble bee

Is there a resolution to this? 

Post # 303
Member
1146 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

zebra10:  he DID try to be nice. He found some benign reason on which to blame not wanting to be with you (no “deep connection”) but then you freaked out and cried. So, his “nice” self freaked out and then wanted to soften the blow (which was probably just as much if not more about making himself feel better as it was to make you feel better, seeing as the whole thing gave him puke inducing anxiety). So, he summons another benign way to mitigate what he just did – saying you will talk later. It’s much easier to defer in the moment and either r just disappear or say again “nope, don’t want to be with you” from a safe distance. 

And I say again, if this door is really open why hasn’t he come running through it yet? It’s been “a few days.” 

Post # 304
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4038 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Post # 305
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9278 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper

Post # 306
Member
322 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

zebra10:  “No reason to leave door open by saying he cares and we should just take time to think things over before we talk”

most guys like to leave doors open. sometimes it’s too much effort/requires balls to shut the door.

Post # 307
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4548 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

He is leaving the door slightly ajar as he is a fence-sitter, and he may like to have sex with you again. Plus it gives him all the power. 

He isn’t going to wife you.

Post # 308
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3682 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Have you ever not been invited to a wedding in a park?

Post # 309
Bee
11811 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2009 - Barr Mansion

This thread has gotten way off track. I’m going to close it now and remind everyone that calling someone a troll or implying that someone is a troll is against our Terms of Service.

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