- 7 years ago
- Wedding: September 2011
Here is my issue , might not be a big issue but its making me worry a bit. I am in a long distance relationship, my fiance lives in IL and I live in VA and we make trips to see each other every 1-2 months and we get to see our future in laws and such and sometimes we spend a whole week at others parents houses because we still live with parents.
The thing is with my future mother in law is that everything is good and she is very nice to me and a great future mother in law. She is also helping with the wedding and she also said that she will help with paying for some furniture and just helps us later with setteling down since its going to be our first place and such.
The issue that I have here is that I have been contacting her at times through email and updating her with wedding plans and asking how she is doing and I sent her a very cute card for Christmas. However , since then I got an email from her thanking me for the card and that was it. Since then I haven’t heard anything from her. My fiance was here for Christmas and spent it with my family and she called few times to talk with him.
I am not sure if I am doing anything wrong here or I need to do more or contact her more? I dont understand why she doesnt send me an email to check or just simply to say Hi.
Do I need to worry about this? Its a bit hard to do anythign since I live far away. I will go there in May to attend my future-sister in law wedding and then will be moving over there in the summer and get married in Sept and to live the rest of my life in a different state with different family. His mom was going crazy thinking that he will have to move but it was better choice for us for me to move since he has a job and its cheaper over there.