(Closed) No contact with groom on wedding day? How did that feel? Or not feel?

posted 7 years ago in Grooms/men
Post # 3
6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Haha, my Darling Husband and I talked ALOT on the wedding day.

It was raining and we were supposed to be having an outdoor wedding (it didn’t happen) and so he was calling and texting me a lot to keep me in the loop!!!

Post # 4
1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I got married yesterday ๐Ÿ™‚ and I was very nervous that something would go wrong. My husband and I did sleep together the night before so we saw each other on the morning of the wedding, we texted and spoke on the phone while getting ready and we had a moment alone (meaning he saw me) before the ceremony. For me, it made me feel so much more relaxed to just have a moment alone with him before all of the craziness. It reminded me not to be nervous because there was no need– I was meeting him at the end of the aisle. So I appreciated seeing him and being in contact with him throughout the day.

Post # 5
460 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I really want to have contact on the wedding day (it is about us insnt it?) Im hoping for no contact the night before, texting ok the morning of and seeing each other for the first look photos before the ceremony just me him and the photographer ๐Ÿ™‚

but Ive got a long way to go and who know what we will want the day of

Post # 6
1088 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I didn’t really talk to my husband at all on the wedding day. We were both busy getting ready and hanging out with the bridal party…guys were at one house, I was in the bridal suite. he did text me last minute asking if I could tell the coordinator that he wanted a “groomsman table” lol. That was annoying. ๐Ÿ™‚ But I think it depends on what you want. A quick text would be nice, or just checking in beforehand. For us, we just had so much going on and I think we wanted a surprise too ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 7
365 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

We’re not going to see / talk to each other on the day of the wedding – well that’s the plan anyway! I’m hoping that I’ll be so busy with hair / make up / my bridesmaids and mums that it won’t be a problem. However, the ceremony isn’t until 2pm, so that’s quite a while to wait. 

Post # 8
9029 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I will be seeing him briefly in the morning because we will be meeting at the reception site to set it up

Post # 9
1995 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

we did not talk the day of.  I think we maybe had a couple texts but we were both very busy and didnt have time to catch up.  We both knew what we were suppose to do and just did it all to get done before the ceremony.  I don’t think there is anything wrong with a phone call or text.  Even if just to say good morning.  Honestly for me it built the suspension up – making it a little more nervous but worth it!

Post # 10
5886 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

We spent the night in separate places–my hotel, him our place. We were so busy getting ready that I didn’t even really notice not being in contact. I made the ceremony that much more sweet and exciting when I did get to see him at the end of the aisle.

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