Post # 1
Ok, someone please tell me that they feel the same way…I tried on over 100 dresses, finally found one that I felt enough connection to to purchase, but never really loved anything. my dress came in yesterday after waiting 6 months and it’s beautiful, however I think it’s “boring”. I guess I thought when I picked a dress I’d pick something a bit more sexy or edgy, yet my final pick was classic and timeless. Anyone else really not overly impressed with wearing a wedding gown and feel like they were supposed to be?
Post # 3
I don’t think my dress is boring, but I certainly don’t have the kind of “relationship” with it some ladies seem to. I’m not calling it “her” or giving it a name like it’s a pet!
The truth is, I’m not a girly girl. Wearing a dress is not typical or comfortable for me, so I wasn’t looking forward to shopping for one. I’m glad I found one that made my family cry. That’s about it.
Post # 4
I guess I should say that it’s boring without the additions we’ve made (without posting too much info in case someone I know sees this). I like it..it’s beautiful…and when I look at magazines there isn’t anything else I would pick. just for some reason I guess I saw myself making lots of different decisions when it came to my wedding. like you, viewfrmhere, I guess I’m not the girly girl type either. I wouldn’t change anything..just surprised at how it all came together.
Post # 5
I think ‘Say Yes to the Dress’ has us all thinking that we’re supposed to have an emotional meltdown when we find “THE” dress. I went to the fitting alone, and tried on probably 3 dresses. I picked the one that flattered me, and then I went and bought it online for cheaper, haha.
Some of us are more excited about other details. Like, my venue is starting to really come together (we’re building an outdoor amphitheatre of sorts), and I get teary-eyed whenever I visit.
I think it’s okay to not be thrilled about a dress you’ll wear one time. As long as you look pretty and feel good, that’s all that matters.
Post # 6
@caradcollins: so not everyone cries like on say yes to the dress. also, hair/makeup plays a big role. i had doubts at the last fitting 3 days before the wedding, and i didnt feel like a bride til the day i put it on. but once it was on, it was awesome!!
Post # 7
To me I just wanted to look nice and I wanted to make my SO cry. That was pretty much my measure for whether or not it was a contender… 1. Does my body look BANGIN’ 2. Will he start balling like a giant baby 3. Will it photograph well. I found a dress I liked, I didnt cry, and I am happy with it. I don’t see the point in getting so emotionally attached to a dress. You are not alone.
Post # 8
@caradcollins: I am also disappointed with how I feel about my dress. I never had “the moment” like on SYTTD. I just bought the first dress I liked better than others. Now I look at it and feel extreme remorse. I just don’t feel pretty in it. I’m hoping alterations will help.
Post # 9
I feel the same way. I didn’t cry at all, but I still think I looked awesome in it. The one I bought is beautiful and it gave me some awesome CURVES and my mom and some other shoppers loved it as well. I only tried on about 8-9 in one sitting and I bought it.
But sometimes I still feel like I’d like to keep trying on dresses because I didn’t try on that many, maybe I was just having too much fun playing dress up?? So I wonder if I should have tried on more dresses just because for some reason I think it should have taken me longer to make a decision…oh well.
Post # 10
I am a girly girl and I do not feel an emotional attachment to my dress. I didn’t have an “OMG! This is the ONE!” moment – more like, after reviewing pictures of dresses I tried on, I decided I liked the draping of this dress best and it was the best price, so I bought it. That’s probably partly why I keep having second thoughts about my dress. I did have a couple THIS IS IT! moments while trying on dresses, but they were too expensive and I love a good deal almost as much as I love a pretty dress. 😉
Post # 11
I think the problem is TV shows and other people can build up the expectation that we should have this OMG moment of “it’s the one.” I try to compare it to my fiance… I adore him, but it wasn’t love at first sight. Love builds over time, and when you know you have the one, you STOP looking. Be happy with what you have, and move on to the next wedding challenge. I am sure you look beautiful, and you will be happy with it in the long run.
Post # 12
I liked most the dresses I tried but could NOT spend the amount they were asking. Bought one on Ebay that was a disaster so bought a cheap one at a bridal shop. The music is whats emotional to me, dress is quiet frankly hot and bothersome although no denying it’s pretty!
Post # 13
I really liked my wedding dress, it was the exact style I wanted and I felt absolutely beautiful wearing it, but I have no gushing emotional attachment to it like what you see on TV shows.
Post # 14
My major reaction when I got my dress and tried it on was, oh jeez, I’m going to be “a Bride.” Now I think my dress is beautiful but I’m just not super comfortable with “done” hair, lots of makeup and being the center of attention. My dress is really nice but I don’t, like, daydream about it or have the urge to keep trying it on. It’s no more (and no less) than what I’m going to be wearing the day I get married.