- 13 years ago
- Wedding: December 2008
I’m married and the wedding and honeymoon were amazing. More than I could have dreamed of.
But a few odd things happened and I need advice on this one – my boss and his wife were invited and came to the wedding. I’ve worked for this man for over 4 years as his personal assistant. He is a very non-traditional boss, very demanding – a lot of people can’t understand how I’ve worked for him for this long….
So anyway he and his wife came to the wedding and kind of stayed to the side and weren’t very social (didn’t dance and left early, I don’t remember seeing them leave) and at my 60 person wedding they sort of stuck out as the ones that weren’t really enjoying the party. I find it very odd that they didn’t sign the guestbook and also didn’t leave a gift or even a card! I know guests technically have time to give something but it’s really rubbing me the wrong way.
Do you think it’s ok to ask why he didn’t give anything – or I was also thinking of calling his wife’s secretary to see if she knows anything??? I think it’s possible that they forgot, or he assumed the wife took care of it and she assumed he took care of it – I don’t want to be rude but honestly, I will be mad if they don’t give us anything!
Maybe I should just wait (the wedding was on 12-6)
What do you think????