Post # 16
I was actually just thinking about you yesterday! I have a cousin who is struggling with infertility and I remembered your scare a few weeks ago. I’m so sorry, I hope DH is extra supportive and comforting. Wishing you both well 🙁
Post # 17
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I can’t even imagine what you’re going through. Words alone can never describe the true depth of this kind of loss. Sending you virtual hugs, I hope your hubby gets home soon!
Post # 18
I’m so so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and thoughts to you and your angel.
Post # 19
I’m so sorry for your loss. Hoping you have some good support people who understand how devastating miscarriage is. Many hugs to you.
Post # 20
What am I supposed to do tonight? I tried to watch something on tv but just felt worse when it was over…
Post # 21
I don’t comment on other people’s posts very much but I read this and cried. I feel so terribly for you and your family…what a horrible thing. I’m so so sorry. I don’t know if your religious or spiritual or anything, but please know that I truly am praying for you guys to get through this heartbreak. As for what to do tonight…I don’t know honestly. I sometimes find a long walk helps me clear my head. I don’t know if that would be something that would help you. But please know that tonight is the worst it will be…this pain you feel will slowly ease over time. It may never completely go away, but it will get better. Again, I am so sorry for your loss.
Post # 22
Omg I can’t imagine what you’re going through.. I have tears in my eyes after reading your post.. I am so so sorry for your loss. This is devastating. I can’t offer any advice as i do not understand but I am praying for you and your DH.
Post # 23
I second your suggestion for a walk. But I like to RUN HARD and in a fast burst listening to music. It helps me get my emotions out. Let’s me cry and be angry by myself and it’s surprisingly cathartic.
Post # 24
I am so sorry for your loss. I had the same thing happen to me at 9w 2d in March. I was devastated. You have all of these hopes and dreams and they come crashing down.
I had a D&C a week later and spent plenty of time grieving and being angry– I couldn’t understand why this would happen to me. Then I spent way too much time on Google and realized that the baby was really sick and it was far better for this to happen now than 3-4 months down the road.
Almost 7 months later (and on my original due date), I’m 20 weeks pregnant. So there is hope.
Post # 25
Thank you all. I am touched by your thoughtful messages.
im actually jewish and today is Yom Kippur, the day of Atonement. The day when the book of life is sealed and it is determined ‘who shall live and who shall die’. I spent all morning in synagogue praying. It’s not fair.
I think I’ll wAlk to the library now to return my copy of the Mayo Clinica guide to a healthy pregnancy.
My heart hurts. I hope tomorrow is better.
Post # 26
Pollywogg – congratulations!!!!
Post # 27
I am so sorry. I’ve been there and it’s just the most devastating thing. You literally just have to get through it one minute at a time.
This poem gave me a lot of hope after my miscarriage. I’m sharing it in hopes that it will bring you some comfort, too.
Post # 28
I am soooo incredibly sorry 🙁
Post # 29
I’m very sorry . my prayers to your family.
Post # 30
Should I do a D&C or take medicine to induce a miscarriage? And is there any reason to get HCGs taken or postpone past Monday?
She was so negative. She said it was still measuring 6w 2 days which was the same size as it was 3 weeks ago. I mean there was this huge sac with a big void in it.
does anyone have advice on what to do? Just do the D&C on Monday? I’m normally quite anti-medicine so it’s hard to know if that’s the best option for me. Is there a natural option?