(Closed) No heartbeat. I'm heartbroken.

posted 6 years ago in Pregnancy
Post # 16
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

I was actually just thinking about you yesterday! I have a cousin who is struggling with infertility and I remembered your scare a few weeks ago. I’m so sorry, I hope DH is extra supportive and comforting. Wishing you both well 🙁

Post # 17
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

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BiancaBee33:  I can’t even imagine what you’re going through.  Words alone can never describe the true depth of this kind of loss.  Sending you virtual hugs, I hope your hubby gets home soon! 

Post # 18
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

I’m so so sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and thoughts to you and your angel.

Post # 19
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I’m so sorry for your loss.  Hoping you have some good support people who understand how devastating miscarriage is.  Many hugs to you.  

Post # 21
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Newbee

I don’t comment on other people’s posts very much but I read this and cried. I feel so terribly for you and your family…what a horrible thing. I’m so so sorry. I don’t know if your religious or spiritual or anything, but please know that I truly am praying for you guys to get through this heartbreak. As for what to do tonight…I don’t know honestly. I sometimes find a long walk helps me clear my head. I don’t know if that would be something that would help you. But please know that tonight is the worst it will be…this pain you feel will slowly ease over time. It may never completely go away, but it will get better. Again, I am so sorry for your loss. 

Post # 22
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

Omg I can’t imagine what you’re going through.. I have tears in my eyes after reading your post.. I am so so sorry for your loss. This is devastating. I can’t offer any advice as i do not understand but I am praying for you and your DH. 

Post # 23
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2016

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Alex04242015:  I second your suggestion for a walk. But I like to RUN HARD and in a fast burst listening to music. It helps me get my emotions out. Let’s me cry and be angry by myself and it’s surprisingly cathartic. 

Post # 24
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: City, State

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BiancaBee33:  I am so sorry for your loss. I had the same thing happen to me at 9w 2d in March. I was devastated. You have all of these hopes and dreams and they come crashing down.

I had a D&C a week later and spent plenty of time grieving and being angry– I couldn’t understand why this would happen to me. Then I spent way too much time on Google and realized that the baby was really sick and it was far better for this to happen now than 3-4 months down the road.

Almost 7 months later (and on my original due date), I’m 20 weeks pregnant. So there is hope.

 

Post # 27
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I am so sorry. I’ve been there and it’s just the most devastating thing. You literally just have to get through it one minute at a time. 

This poem gave me a lot of hope after my miscarriage. I’m sharing it in hopes that it will bring you some comfort, too. 

Post # 28
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

I am soooo incredibly sorry 🙁

Post # 29
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2016

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nyckitten:  I’m very sorry . my prayers to your family.

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