(Closed) No, I am not pregnant!

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 4
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297 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

I guess he thought he was being funny and insightful. Not too much you can say to people like this, it is really none of their business. I would just tell them you are in no rush and when it is time to let them know, you will. 

Post # 5
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2651 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

Don’t feel to bad, the min. we announced our engagement the baby talk began. I even had a few people ask when i was due, ( I am a little heavy, not a whole lot mind you but college diets do  do a  number on you . 🙂 )  We told them that we plan on waiting untill after grad school, and ” we’re getting a puppy, does that count?”

Make jokes about it and nicely ( or not so much depends on your mood) tell them thank you but its none of their concern.

Post # 7
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658 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

I feel your pain. I will be 35 and Fiance will be 31 when we finally get married. EVERYONE asks when we are goning to haave kids. I am getting sick of trying to explain things. My new answer is we’re not. When they ask why, I just say: “Cause I don’t like kids.” That usually shuts them up. lol

Post # 8
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90 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

Ah.. haha… yes, my Future Mother-In-Law asked me several times after we got engaged if I was expecting. It was just such a surprise that she would assume this is the reason we are getting married that I didn’t know what to say the first couple times, but I’ve got it figured out now : No! That’s not the only reason people in their early twenties get married! I can’t believe how many well meaning relatives have this idea. I try to just take their comments with a grain of salt and laugh about it later. But your family friend? What nerve! Good luck. 🙂

Post # 9
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630 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I’m always afraid people think I’m pregnant because we are having a quick engagement (5 months). But i think people understand that we aren’t getting married because I’m pregnant because I always mention my FI’s position in the Navy.

My mom, also, is very adament about keeping me on birth control because she wants me to finish school before I have kids and also she just thinks I am too young.

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