(Closed) No kids at wedding…

posted 8 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 47
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I am in the middle of trying to decide whether or not to have children at our wedding. If we do it means 16 little kids most of them toddler age running around. Fiance doesn’t want them there and I don’t either…I am afraid of offending my family. They are all the children of cousins. One of those cousins has already said that if her son is not invited then they won’t be attending.  OP I think your invite was clear. I wouldn’t be offended. I would explain the situation to her and leave it at that. I am being a massive hypocrite because I am worried about the same thing. URGH.


Post # 48
636 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@lovinglace:  I actually find it quite normal to not have children at a wedding since I remember how boringI found them as a child! Itchy dress, hours sitting around nd not being able to play!

I was much happier at home with my nanny!

So I think you shouldn’t justify not having kids at the wedding. Just reply “we are having an adult only wedding” 

If you try to justify it it could cause more trouble, you are hosting the wedding so you get to invite who you like.

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