posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1716 posts
Bumble bee

Tell him flat out in no fancy words….Adult Only = No minor persons.

Post # 5
1068 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’m having no kids (with a slight exception for nursing infants) and I don’t feel bad about it. My reception is in a BAR, people! Deal with it. My neice has been whining about it for months. (13 yo) and I told her to suck it up.

If you’re not close enough with these people to have an honest and forthright conversation, does it even really matter if they don’t show up?

Just tell him, Adult =21+ and then don’t say anything else.

Post # 6
1361 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Some people make the cutoff younger than 18 or 21 (say 12), so that might be why he’s asking.  I think you need to give him an answer and just stick to your guns.  He’s probably just asking around because he needs an answer and you haven’t given him one.

Post # 7
1274 posts
Bumble bee

That sucks. I would just set an age, i.e. 18 and stick to it. Let your inlaws and parents know that’s the deal. Otherwise ppl may ask, maybe he considers Adults Only for something like this to be children only (like under 12) and teenagers could be mature enough to attend. You never know…so it’s best to stick to an age and let everyone know right away.

Post # 8
3303 posts
Sugar bee

Say 18 years old and stick with the decision. 

Post # 9
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I would respond Adult = 18 years of age.  He can’t debate with that.  God people are annoying! I’m so over social graces when responding to people like this!  haha

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