- 7 years ago
Thank you all for your comments and suggestions. I know I do need to talk to him about it, but I’d like to wait a little bit longer before I do. I thought the point of this site was to get things out that you couldn’t/didn’t want to say to your man?
I was raised to believe that any emotion a person has is a valid one, and the rudeness on the thread was beginning to invalidate me.
His ex was extremely insecure about herself and didn’t want to plan the wedding before she lost weight. She was also controlling and kept pushing their date further and further and changing her mind on the guest list. He loved her so he put up with it.
I’ve accepted that he’s just not ready and I’m okay with it now, just disappointed. I’m willing to give him time if that’s what he needs to feel ready, the last thing I want to do iis pressure him into something. I’m happy with where we are, and I’m no longer expecting a proposal or engagement any time soon. Time to focus on myself and get some hobbies I think! : )