(Closed) No longer waiting

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 32
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Newbee

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@Waterfall: Please don’t take this the wrong way, but put yourself first.  I’ve been there, and I wish I would have taken my own advice.  For right now, treat it like a breakup, until he gives you a reason not to.  When I went through this, I had a tendency to answer every call, every text, and be right there as soon as he asked.  I thought maybe he would change his mind if I was always there, and I really didn’t help myself at all.  I wish I would have had more respect for myself, and maybe he would have too.  He says he needs time and space, so give it to him, just not with you in it 🙂 He can’t have it both ways.  I’m not saying be mean or rude to him, just don’t always be too attached. I hope this works out for you!  Keep your head up!

Post # 34
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3306 posts
Sugar bee

*hugs* hope you can move on- he can’t have his cake and eat it too 🙁

Post # 35
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

Do not compromise yourself- break up with him, no wishy washy break thing, and move on.  If he’s not ready, he shouldn’t be stringing you along, putting your feelings and life on hold until he is ready for you.  You deserve a guy who cannot wait to marry you, not someone who isn’t sure then messes with your head!

Post # 36
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

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@armychica06: I couldnt agree more. Dear OP, you deserve a man who not only is completely sure that he wants to be with you, but is unwilling to put your heart through the ringer just to be “sure.” Whatever the heck that means after spending years with a person…*sigh* *hugs*

Post # 37
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

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@GoldfishPie: Totally agree.. no wishy-washy!  I’ve been there.. it only causes more pain and problems.  You’re either together or not.. and if it were me, it would be NOT.  Don’t let the wishy-washy waste your time.  You’ll only regret it in the end.

Post # 39
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Helper bee

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@Waterfall: Glad to hear you talked and are working things out.  Best of luck to you!

Post # 40
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1676 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

Hope you two get everything worked out.

Post # 42
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177 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

We are all here for you! I hope you two are able to work out the things that you need to. 

Post # 43
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3196 posts
Sugar bee

Stay strong and keep the long term goal in mind: To find a man that loves you and wants to spend the rest of his life with you. Not just to spend the rest of your life with this current man. Hopefully, this idea will keep you from caving and chasing a man that isn’t right for you 🙂 good luck and love yourself first!

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