(Closed) No longer waiting, I broke up with him

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Whew! Good for you girl, that must have been so therapeutic putting it all out there! Sounds like you made 10000% the right choice. You sound like such a strong woman with sooo much going for you and a healthy self-esteem which will take you far in the dating world, IMO. And even though it sucks right now, I know you’re gonna get over him in NO time. Promise. (just reference your list here from time to time!:)

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee

Seriously good for you for finally leaving him. And I would save this list for future reference.

You deserve someone who will think the world of you and go to the moon and back just to make you happy.

I know its hard to start over but after reading that list, I know once you regain full control of your life, not only your self-esteem but your actual happiness will improve.Also know you can stay on the bee and we’ll be here to support you whenever you need kind listeners.

Good luck & I know you really did make the best decsion for you and your son.

Post # 5
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109 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I don’t think sitting on wedding bee and spending time naming everything you didn’t like about your ex boyfriend and what he did wrong is going to help your healing process.

Post # 7
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2014

I wish you all the best!!  You’ll find someone just right for you who will treat you well and be excited to spend the rest of his life with you. 

It’s good that you wrote it all out, it will help with the process of getting over him.  

Good luck to you and your little son 

Post # 8
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Buzzing bee

@Mrs. Harmony: (hugs)

@ChocolateApple: Hey people heal in a ton of different ways and its not your place to comment on what you think is or isn’t healing.

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Mrs. Harmony: Well I wasn’t intending to be of help to you at all. I was stating my opinion that I don’t think it’s very classy to come on to a fourm and start bashing your ex boyfriend and listing just about everything you don’t like about the guy.Just my opinion.

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

@Koala Bear: I gave my opinion and the last thing I remember reading about this site was that was giving an opinion was OK on a public forum. It’s also not your place to tell me what “my place” is. Thanks.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

@ChocolateApple: WTF?? It’s not like we all know the guy! You’ve never talked shit about a lame ex to a group of your friends? How is putting it out there anonymously on the internet worse/different than that?

Post # 12
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

I wish I would have done this with my ex Fiance. I have a mile long list much like yours… good for you for dropping him while you still could… Now be strong and don’t go back! I’ve seen that way too often =/ even with myself with my ex.

Listing reasons why he’s a bad match and looking back at it when you miss him is a great way to keep your feet in front of you! I met my (now FI) a month or so after I finally dumped my ex after 2 years of pain and doubt… Just keep your head up, Mr. Right will come along.

Post # 13
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Dont feed the troll people Cool

@Mrs. Harmony: aww it sounds like you escaped a life time of misery for you and your little son 🙂

My Gaydar is bleeping btw lol.

The close relationships with lots of girls is very disrespectful to you too.

I hope your feeling at least a little better!

Post # 15
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2014

My Gaydar is bleeping btw lol.

             lol agreed.

Post # 16
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2012

@LessIsMoore: indeed the very reason I believe everything happens for a reason =D awesome sauce!

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