(Closed) no longer waiting the ring is gone

posted 8 years ago in Emotional
Post # 32
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL

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@GoldfishPie:  You said it!  What a childish and immature way for him to act.  He is blaming you for why he doesn’t want to propose; sounds to me like he never wanted to propose in the first place.  I wouldn’t stay with a guy that played with my emotions in this manner.

Even if he is lying and hasn’t returned the ring to the store; is this behavior you want to put up with in the future?  How will he react if you are ready to have kids and he isn’t?  Will he make you beg and then say he will agree by X date then change his mind and say he doesn’t want kids and it’s your fault for wanting them?  Absolutely not.  Return him to the douchebag store for some other girl too dumb to realize what an A-hole this guy is.

Post # 33
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Wow, what a jerk.

How would he feel if you did a naked strip tease and half a hand job on him a month ago and then said you wouldn’t have sex with him because he wanted it too bad? 

Post # 34
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

Wow I’m so sorry.  I don’t even know what I’d do if my SO did this to me.  Especially if he showed me the ring a month earlier.  I wish men understood that women should have some info / choice about something that is going to affect the rest of their lives.

Post # 35
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Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: April 2013

Just because someone in the relationship got pushy, the other person is a douchebag?  I’m going to have the unpopular opinion here, but I’m siding with the guy on this one.  Marriage involves two people, both of which need to be on the same page.  I’m so tired of these posts that always paint the guy to be inconsiderate, @$$hole, jerk, douchbag just because he didn’t propose by the deadline that his girl had set before she even met him.  If there is something that you want, but you’re acting out because you’re not getting your way, you’re probably not ready for marraige.

Post # 36
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Honey bee

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@mrsoze:  I’m pretty sure you’re either spamming these boards out of boredom OR you are the kind of dbag that the women on this forum would tell a girl to run far far away from. Either way, shut up.

To the OP, I’m sorry your boyfriend is being cruel. Sounds very “I was going to invite you to my party, but now I’m not gonna!”. Maybe you two should have an adult conversation about what each wants in a more respectful way. 

Post # 37
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

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@MrsBtoBe14:  +1 I agree, why did he show it to you and then make you wait, thats just mean.

Post # 38
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Busy bee

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@mrsoze:  you seem to get some kind of kick out of seeing the anguish girls go through while they are waiting for a proposal.  Your comment was completely unnecessary.

OP my heart goes out to you – I hope you can sort this out but please be careful – it does sound as if your SO is either immature or having doubts.

Post # 39
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Newbee
  • Wedding: September 2017

He sounds like such a controlling person!

I hope he treats you how you deserve to be treated! 🙂

Post # 40
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

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@almostmrsj:  +1!!!

Post # 41
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Wow. Take it as a sign girl. He sounds like he might have some control issues. 

Post # 42
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

what an immature jerk.  Proposals aren’t a reward for you being on your best behavior, it’s a mutual decision made by two adults who love each other unconditionally. 

If it were me, I’d leave any man who did that.

Post # 43
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

Wow way to be manipulative. I smell a control freak, and that is NOT something you want to marry anyway!

Post # 44
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Total jerk- move on to someone who deserves you:)

Post # 45
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

He sounds… mature.  Wow, I am sorry this happened!

Post # 46
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

That is cruel and unnecessary of him to do that.

It does not sound like a healthy relationship at all and I hope that you are really taking the time to reevaluate things between you two.

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