(Closed) No MOH

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

It’s not odd.  I think it’s more and more common to not have a Maid/Matron of Honor.  My Fiance isn’t having a best man.

Post # 4
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

You don’t have to have one.

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I did this.  I had 2 bridesmaids, my sister and a friend.  I had my sis sort of take the role of Maid/Matron of Honor, by taking her place in the line up and having her sign the marraige certificate.  The only slightly anoying parts were that non of them really took charge in planning a bacholarette, so I didn’t get one.  In the end it doesn’t really matter though.  I decided not to have a Maid/Matron of Honor because I felt like this ment picking who was more important to me, and I just couldn’t do it.  They both play important roles in my life.  

Post # 7
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

Haha I was so worried about this I gave them all titles. Matron of honor/gaytron of honor: the two married folk Maid of honor/gay of honor: the two single folk and My super-awesome-soon-to-be-little-sister-maid my Fi’s younger sis.

Post # 8
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

@Day_In_The_Life:  That’s exactly what I am doing – 3 Bridesmaid or Best Man, no Maid/Matron of Honor. I didn’t want to choose

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I had 2 BMs (both my sisters) and neither were Maid/Matron of Honor. It was fine.

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I have 5 Bridesmaid or Best Man….no maid of honor. They are all important to me and I wouldn’t know how to choose.

Post # 11
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Busy bee

its really up to you what you want and i dont think taht its weird not to have a Maid/Matron of Honor at all

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I don’t think that is odd, I don’t plan on having one either, I respect all of them equally. When positions come into play sometimes it goes to their head and either they feel like it is their show or they don’t have to do anything because they are boss. I don’t have time for that so all of them will be on a equal playing field.

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