(Closed) No more Bee – Update

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
3357 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

*hugs* I’m so sorry 🙁

Post # 5
Member
273 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I’m sorry : have you considered that maybe he’s just saying all that because he’s still trying to keep it a surprise? Don’t wanna give you false hope, but just a thought…

Post # 6
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2440 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

@Becs:  +1

Post # 8
Member
11752 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

the last thing you should feel is humiliated! You should be really proud of yourself! You will get past this and come out a stronger woman for it. Keep your head up. 

Post # 9
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1059 posts
Bumble bee

I just wanted to say that I am so proud of you! I think it would be one thing if he were honest and told you he was not quite ready yet but had picked out a ring etc. but to blatantly lead you on is not really the sign of a quality person. I know it is hard but I think you definitely did the right thing. I know it will be difficult, but just think with each day that passes, you will be that much closer to meeting someone who will be honest with you, and excited to be with you, and to begin a life with you. Until then, be kind to yourself – do what YOU want, and indulge whenever you can. It will only get better from here!

Post # 10
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1350 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2017

I’ve never commented before, but I have seen your story and I am really sorry at what the outcome was.  You deserve someone wonderful who will be upfront with you and want to marry you.  I’m sorry this guy wasn’t it, but you will find him!

Post # 11
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

I’m sorry you’re going through this. You sound like such a strong, together woman. You deserve better! 

Post # 12
Member
2573 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I am not going to say every cliche that is available for this kind of situation, however I do want to say that we are so PROUD of you for walking away. It takes a very strong person to end things, and you will look back and realize that it was the right choice. Take some time to take care of YOU, and before you know it, you may just meet the One. Kiss ::Hugs::

Post # 13
Member
699 posts
Busy bee

@givemecouture:  I know it hurts right now, lots, I’ve been there, I’m sure we all have. but, trust me, it will get better. your only down , not out! Remember to take care of you, go for massages, manicures, do it for you, only you. Smile each morning & take the day with a grain of salt.

Post # 15
Hostess
2999 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

@givemecouture:  I’ve been thinking about you! Thanks for updating…you are a strong ass woman and should be with someone who knows and appreciates your fabulousness!

Post # 16
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9650 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

@givemecouture:   Been thinking about you, too!  Thanks for updating and I hope you’ll check in from time to time.

You know if he’s ok with you moving out he definitely isn’t the right man for you.  If he loved you the way you’re worth being loved he wouldn’t let you go.  He’s an idiot. 

((HUGS))

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