Post # 1
I just wanted to thank everyone for your support over the past few months. I know that quite a few of you have followed my “waiting” story. Well, it all came to a head tonight and he admitted that he isn’t going to propose. So instead of going to Hawaii on Monday, I will be moving out.
I guess that’s about it… you ladies are all so great and I didn’t want to leave without an explanation.
Post # 3
I’m so so sorry to hear that :(. I had my fingers crossed for you lately. Hey, at least you got an honest answer instead of being strung along any longer. Take care pretty lady xox
Post # 4
Sometimes that’s how life works. I’m sure you’ll find someone else. Wish ya the best.
Post # 5
Aww, I’m so sorry to hear that. *hugs* Take care of yourself, kia kaha (be strong) xx Hopefully we will see you back on the bee oneday!
Post # 6
Just saying what everyone’s thinking – he’s a jerk for stringing you along! 🙁 *hugs*
Post # 7
@givemecouture: I recognised your name and went through your posts and realised I’ve been following dome of your posts as well! I’m so sorry that you’re having to go through this but it sounds like you’ve been the bigger person in this in walking away-him stringing you along as he did was just NOT cool.
You seem like an intelligent, switched on woman and I know what ever you put your mind to you will succeed in so I wish you all the luck in your journey, but dont forget us and hopefully you’ll be back in the not too distant future with a much happier story! 🙂 x
Post # 8
@givemecouture: I’m very sorry for you, but also glad for you that you’re getting out of that situation. I really think he was leading you on making you think he was going to propose all those times, talking about weddings etc, and then not doing it. I mean, who does that?
Post # 9
I’m so sorry. I’ve been there before (though a broken engagement). It hurts and I know you’re gonna want to spend time away from here for a while, but don’t hesitate to come back – I did and it was really therapeudic to talk about my relationships and moving on with the ladies here.
Post # 10
*huga* I’m so sorry that you have to go through this and whilst I wish that your relationship would have worked out, it sounds like you are rightly putting yourself first and are doing what’s best for you. Stay strong and know that we’re here for you and sending lots of hugs and positive thoughts your way
Post # 11
I’m very sorry =( all the best x
Post # 12
I think you are doing the right thing. It would maybe have been different if he genuinely thought he would have been ready to propose and told you he wasn’t ready, or the ring hadn’t come in, or something, but to tell you he had the ring, and that he would propose before xyz date without telling you he wasn’t able to do so for whatever reason and only responding when you brought it up, is actively stringing you along and misleading you. No one needs someone like that, and given how you’ve been questioning whether or not he is stringing you along for the last few months, it seems that you know in your gut that he isn’t sincere.
I hope you get over him soon, and to see you back on the bee someday with happier updates. Best of luck!
Post # 13
Good luck! You did the right thing…hugs!
Post # 14
I’m sorry you feel the need to leave us, we’re to help and support.
I’m really sorry that your ex was such a dishonest jerk.
Post # 15
I’m sorry this happened to you, wish all the best.
Post # 16
*HUGS* So sorry it ended like this. You deserve so much more. Hope to still see you around these boards though! Best of luck with everything.