(Closed) No more Bee :(

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 17
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416 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m so sorry, but looking back in a few months/years you’ll be so grateful that he was honest with you and you moved on. I’m relatively new here and I really appreciate all of the support and help I’ve found here. We’ll be here for you!

Post # 18
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253 posts
Helper bee

This is heartbreaking. Im so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband may just be around the corner. I hope you can take this experience and appreciate it, as this man is moving out of your way for the man you will spend your life with. Its a hard thought, but you’ll be grateful later.

Stay strong, and stay beautiful. He’s somewhere out here for you. And come back and say hello to us! 🙂 

Post # 19
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23 posts
Newbee

Good luck! that’s how life works.

Post # 20
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506 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

@givemecouture:  Oh hon I am so sorry big giant *Hugs* to you. You are so incredibly strong to leave though. That shows so much courage that many cannot exhibit. I am so sorry you have to go through this. Us Bees are always here for some love and advice, so I hope we get to chat again soon. I always think that after a terrible heartache, something good will come. Please don’t be a stranger, you bring so much wisdom and light to the Bee. Stay strong and amazing!! *HUGS*

Post # 21
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202 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

Congratulations!!

You now can get on with your life and take the time to find the right man to happily spend the rest of your life with. So very excited for you… best wishes!!

Post # 22
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5636 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

Big hugs….. So sorry! Wish you the best in whatever your future holds! 

Post # 23
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1899 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

I just skimmed your past threads, and it definitely appears that he’s been stringing you along. You were also rightfully suspicious that he was messing with your head and would not give you what you wanted in the end – perfect evidence that you should never ignore your intuition/gut. You are so much better off without that liar in your life. I promise you things will turn around for you, and that you will not have to give so much of yourself when the right guy comes along. 

Take some time to yourself, but please come back if you are able (like a PP said). I have only been here a week, but the group of posters here is very selfless and supportive.

 

::Hugs::

Post # 24
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793 posts
Busy bee

I’ve read a lot of your posts, I’m so sorry that this is the way things are turning out. Good for you for moving out and moving on with it though! I cannot imagine how much bravery that must take.

Post # 25
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32 posts
Newbee

I, too, have been following your story and while I can’t imagine how hard this must be for you, I think you are showing tremendous self-respect by walking.  Do not second-guess your actions.  He has been stringing you along.  You’ve made your intentions clear from the beginning and you’ve trusted him.  He’s only been confusing and causing you self-doubt because of his own insecurities.  By leaving him, you are standing up for yourself and your life goals.  You’re doing what’s best for you and that’s all that matters!

Post # 26
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4176 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: December 2011

you are definitely doing the right thing. better that it came to a head sooner than later. i’m so sorry that your heart must be broken right now, but please don’t look back and don’t regret your decision.

How did it come out FINALLY that he doesn’t plan to do it?

Post # 27
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2529 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

@givemecouture:  Oh, gosh. I’m so sorry. . . that must be so very hard. BUT I think you are doing the right thing. He has completely strung you along and I am glad you found the strength to do what you needed to do. ((HUGS))

Thank you for letting us know you won’t be around anymore. We’ll miss you. Hopefully someday you will have a happy reason to come back, and in the meantime, we’re here to support you if you want to spend time on here ever again.

Post # 28
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2080 posts
Buzzing bee

I’m very sorry it came out this way, and that you are dealing with this.

 

You are still young and you have your whole life ahead of you. It might be hard for you to believe this right now while you are in pain, but one day you are going to look back on this and you are going to be GLAD you did not waste any more time on this guy… because as one door closes, another one opens. And you are just one step closer to meeting the REAL love of your life.

This guy was a fake.

 

Big hugs. Hang in there!!!

 

Post # 29
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9168 posts
Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m so sorry hun. Good for you for being so strong for doing whatever it takes to make yourself happy – even if that means leaving someone you love and thought you’d have a future with. It will really be for the best in the long run and you will find someone who loves you and wants to marry you as much as you want to marry them!  It’ll be worth all the heartache you’re going through now.

Post # 30
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43 posts
Newbee

@givemecouture:  I’ve been following your story and I know this must be devastating. I might be wrong but I feel like you have been mourning the loss of this relationship for a while and you are going to be soo much happier out of it than you have been the last few months. You are such a strong and beautiful person. this might be unpopular opinion but I am soo excited for you to be starting a new chapter in your life. Putting yourself first and being all about you for a while is going to really give you back your confidence. Nothing is sexier than a confident woman. You deserve the best and you will get it. 

Post # 31
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863 posts
Busy bee

@givemecouture:  I’ve been following your story & I’m so sorry it’s come to this! I hope you don’t leave the bee entirely! We’re all here to support you. I am glad that you are putting yourself first, because you are important and deserve much more!

 

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