No more SO

posted 3 years ago in Relationships
Post # 2
Member
7826 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

Sorry about the end of your relationship. I would spend some time enjoying the single life. There are SO many things in life to explore, especially when you’re in college! Being in a relationship is nice, but it’s important to know and to take care of yourself. Savor the moment!

Post # 3
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1854 posts
Buzzing bee

truetexanbee:  I’m sorry about the end of your relationship but it sounds as though you made the right decision and are happy with your choice. 

You’re in college so it sounds like you’ll have lots of avenues to go to parties, meet new people, try new things, take up some hobbies etc. Just enjoy life and take it easy!

Post # 4
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129 posts
Blushing bee

I’m sorry!

I agree, take some time to do things you like and want. Don’t jump into a relationship right away. You’re a much more intersting person when you have your own life instead of your life just being a series a guys you’ve been with.

Learn to bake! Volunteer! Take a roadtrip by yourself!

Post # 5
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2638 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Yes: date yourself.

Keep yourelf busy killing at your degree!

Post # 6
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2317 posts
Buzzing bee

Good on you for recognizing what had to be done and doing it!

Be very good t yourself during this time

Post # 7
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45667 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Enjoy being single. Do not rush to be in another relationship. Get comfortable with yourself.

Post # 8
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1410 posts
Bumble bee

my advice would be to be picky and have high standards! don’t accept dates just because they ask or you’re feeling lonely, wait for a quality guy who you have really great chemistry with

Post # 9
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5797 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: November 2009 - New York, NY

Agree with PP regarding being single for a while; enjoy your time on your own and pamper yourself.  In due time love will find you.

Post # 10
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3308 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Focus on your studies and enjoy being single.

Be clear about what your dealbreakers and must haves are when it comes to choosing a partner. 

I met my husband when I wasn’t even looking for a boyfriend. I thought it would just be one date since it was completely blind. 

 

Post # 12
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2122 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2015

It sounds like you made the right decision, but the end of a relationship is never easy. Definitely take some time for yourself And take the time you need to heal.

Post # 14
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242 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2015

Ok, so clearly you dodged a bullet there! I feel as though situations like this happen in life to reafirm that your gut instincts are right and to remind you not to second guess yourself. 

Post # 15
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2148 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2016

truetexanbee:  

Good for you for blocking him. I hope you realize that you dodged a bullet, he seems extremely needy.

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