(Closed) No more “wedding convos” until Saturday …

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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5654 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

Darling Husband and I definitely had times where there was no wedding talk. Whether it was on date night or just b/c it had been ALLLLLLLLLLLLLLL wedding and we were forgetting to just enjoy each other.

Enjoy the rest and enjoy your Fiance =)

Post # 5
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317 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Most men are not as into weddings as we are.  My husband could only deal with so much before his eyes would glaze over and I would lose his attention. It would be the same as my husband talking non stop about golf to me.  Give your man a break and you can talk to all of us on here about weddings as much as you want!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I agree completely!  We had to take a couple weeks off of wedding talk about 2 months before the big day.  It helped so much!  It is easy to get wrapped up in “everything wedding,” and I think this is a good way for couples to remember who they are and why they are with the other person in the first place!  Use this chance to breathe, relax, and enjoy each other’s company!!

Post # 7
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1446 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

@misslene: I agree. I’ve pretty much stopped talking to my Fiance about the wedding except to show him a couple of choices I’ve narrowed down. He just doesn’t enjoy it like we do I guess.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2011

@ebet24: Darling Husband enjoyed the planning more than I thought he would but he definitley started missing “ME” when I had wedding brain without any breaks. It was like he was just looking for that goofy not picking colors, fonts, decor self. lol

Post # 9
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344 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

I talk wedding and Fiance talks dollar signs so we’re a nice mix haha. But in all seriousness, we definitely take breaks in not speaking about wedding stuff until someone mentions the topic and so starts the cycle again. But I think I’ve been good in laying off the topic. I need to stop my wedding planning break soon 😉

Post # 11
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@misslene:

Hilarious! I’ve been seeing that glaze a lot lately. I really appreciate how you put it.. I sometimes think he’s suppose to be just as interested as I am in when his uncle makes a toast at our wedding or what color sash the flower girl is wearing 😉 

Post # 12
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174 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Absolutely.  Oh my gosh, I promised myself I would not be the girl who asked him about EVERY detail, but I found myself doing it.  I need like wedding patch to put on my arm so I get my fix of wedding talk each day!

I am getting better, it was real bad when we first got engaged, and I finally asked him: “I know the wedding is important to you.  What would you like to see the most, and what would you like to not see anywhere NEAR our wedding?”  Answers: no cake (pie), tan suit, no pink bridesmaid dresses, no feather boas, no embarrasing pictures of him naked as a child. 

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee

Yea – having the same issues as all of you. I have found myself to be an absolute basket case when it comes to decisions. Fiance has been pretty good with helping me decide things but lately with other stresses he’s become very overwhelmed. So we’ve decided to only talk about wedding stuff in the evening. I seem to be able to have a million balls in the air at once time and skip from one thing to another easily, but Fiance can focus on only one thing at a time…soooo, planned wedding talk times it is!

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