Post # 1
ok so i am going to try and make this short…
over the past few months i guess we have been falling apart from each other. He grew less and less caring and was more worried about his mates than me , but when i went out with a group of friends he couldn’t handle it evan if it was just to meet up with a big group of girls for coffe.
i felt like if i let him go i would of failed , and i got more and more depressed as time went on. It got to the point where we weren’t talking to each other at all i mean he just looked at me and flat out said im not guna talk to u for 3 days ! he said he knew he had been mean but the fact i couldn’t bring my self to kiss him made him angry ..
in thoes 3 days i had a talk with my family and they tould me they have never seen me so sad and its guna all be ok. so when he turnt up agen we had a talk and we broke it off.
its was sad but it is for the best.
and i am amazed at how much i have been missing , he spends his nights getting drunk with his mates wich makes him happy , and i spend my days with my friends that have been so suportive of me and have showed me how to be happy agen.
its been 2 weeks ish and i think we are both more happy .
Post # 3
*hugs* I know it’s probably hard now, but by letting go of a relationship that didn’t work, you’ve left yourself open to find one that does.
I’m glad you are more happy now, and I think it’s great that you want him to be happy as well.
Post # 4
we were togthere all most 5 years so i dont feel like i hate him ,,, just that we lost the love so i want him to be happy and i think he wants me to be happy to.
Post # 5
I hope your relationship helped you grow as a person. I think that, especially in long term relationships, we learn a lot about ourselves and what works for us (and doesn’t) in relationships in general, not just romantic ones. I hope you don’t view this as wasted time. It’s always hard when there is change in our lives. I hope that you are fortunate enough to meet someone perfect for you soon.
Post # 6
thank you so much! and i do i see it as a happy memory he helped me grow as a person and i am happy to have had that realationship and i have no regrets from it .
Post # 7
Sounds like you made the right choice. I’m glad you are spending time with friends and have grown from this. You are doing awesome:) *hugs*