Post # 1
This is going to sound really trivial but I am kind of sad that none of my good friends or family members acknowledged that they received my save the date invitations. They were pretty expensive and I thought they were really cute and personalized and no one said anything about getting theirs except two of my friends who are not bridesmaids. My two friends texted me and were all excited that they had received it. I am just kind of bummed that my MOH and other bridesmaid didn’t say anything. I thought they would be all excited. 🙁
Has this happened to anyone else? I’m sure I’ll get over it. I just thought the Save the Dates I sent out were so cute and I was so excited to get messages from people saying that they were really excited for our wedding…
This topic was modified 2 years, 11 months ago by randee95.
Post # 2
The STD doesn’t require a confirmation of receipt or anything. I’m sure people did receive them and now know when your wedding will be, which is their whole purpose. They probably did think the STDs were cute but didn’t see the need to tell you.
Post # 3
craigslistgirl: I know you’re right! I am just being really silly.
Post # 4
It sucks but……….
Other people will never care as much about your wedding and its trimmings as you do.
Post # 5
randee95: Hm, I don’t believe I’ve ever acknowledged a save the date. Mentally, I’ll think “oh, cute” but to me, it’s mainly utilitarian. It serves a purpose, which is to tell me when you’re getting married so I can plan for it. It has never occured to me to call someone up (or text, whatever) and compliment them on it. Try not to be sad or take it personally. I’m sure everyone thought to themselves how cute the card was and is excited about the wedding, but I imagine a lot of people feel like I do — a save the date is a one-way communication that doesn’t require explicit acknowledgment. Congratulations!
Post # 6
randee95: I agree with craigslistgirl, all your guests probably have them, know when your wedding is and think they are cute.
I wouldn’t comment on a save the date unless the person hand delivered it to me /gave it to me when I saw them. I might say something along the lines of “ooooh how exciting, these are so cute” but I wouldn’t go out of my way to contact someone to inform them I had received a save the date.
In your own words, I think your being silly 😛
Post # 7
- Wedding: November 2013 - Garden
Would never have occurred to me to say anything until I got married. Now I make a point of texting the bride when I receive one and let her know that I got it and that I think it is cute. Sometimes it’s those little things that make wedding planning bearable when you’re in the midst of a planning-induced-breakdown 😉
It really does suck but when you send out your invites and everyone starts to get excited as the wedding gets closer, you’ll get lots more feedback from people and you won’t feel down about this any more.
Post # 8
Oh girl, make sure you learn this lesson right now or you will be in for a world of hurt come your wedding day;
Absolutelt no one cares about your wedding as much as you.
You pick beautiful STDs trimmed with French silk lace borders, matte backgrounds with glossy embossed type and you see the most beautiful STDs ever; They get it in the mail, slap a magnet over it, and then forget about it until the invite comes.
Dont get your feelings hurt, make sure you get this now before you get disappointed by people’s reactions to your meticulously selected center pieces, color coordinated decor, even the amount of people who RSVP, because at the end of the day they do care, but not really THAT much.
Post # 9
j_jaye: This is amazing! Thanks for your feedback 🙂
Post # 10
randee95: I understand how you feel. My parents, grandma, and aunt were really excited and called us right away, but no one else acknowledged them at all. We heard nothing from FI’s parents, family, or any of our friends.
Post # 11
MKWeddingBee: I’m glad someone understands. I thought more people would be excited. I am sure they were excited, they just choose to show their excitement in different ways.
Post # 12
randee95: I spent a lot of time and money on mine and found basically no one cared. Unfortunately, it is just the way things are!
Post # 13
What would they say? “Hey, got the Save the Date. Um. Gonna save the date. Okay, bye!”
Post # 14
randee95: We only had about 10 (?) people say something or take pics of them lol
Post # 15
randee95: I’m really worried now! I agonised for weeks over which Save the dates to pick, I’ll be so upset if nobody acknowledges them!! 🙁