(Closed) No one to talk to :( VENT WARNING

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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46331 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Don’t take it too seriously. Sometimes BM’s just doon’t want to hurt your feelings so they don’t answer at all.

Just keep calm and carry on with your planning.

Post # 4
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1093 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

One of the things I’ve read on WB that stuck with me during the wedding process is… “No one cares more about your wedding than you”. Yes, as brides-to-be we want to share our ideas and want feedback but some people/friends/family just don’t feel the same way. Try not to take it personally, it’s just the way it is.

Use the WB for sharing your wedding plans and excitement about the flowers, cake or Bridesmaid or Best Man dresses. We’re all here for each other and who else is more excited about weddings than someone whos either planning one or has had one!!

Post # 5
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2874 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

@Ill Be Mrs B:  i second this. no one else is really interested in talking at length about wedding details like colours etc, *particularly* if theyre not wedding planning themselves and havent done it before (if they are, theres a bit mroe enthusiasm for wedding talk)

it sounds like they tried to show enthusiasm last year, if only for 2 months. but now they dont want to bounce ideas about this centrepiece or that. this is a terrible analogy, but its the same as if someone wants to talk about a really boring hobby – like stamp collecting. and initially, youll make conversation about it because you care for the person. and then you start thinking…i really dont want to talk about this anymore. and you get a bit less responsive

now, i am in love with all things wedding-y. my wedding, your wedding, imaginery weddings…i can chat at length. because it interests me. but some of my friends totally dont want to talk about it (actually even my mum isnt that interested). thats why we love wedding bee! people who *want* to takl about wedding stuff and are *happy* to give opinions

why is your Maid/Matron of Honor against marriage? just curious

Post # 7
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308 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m in the same boat! Totally understand…my poor fiance is just like uhhh pick whatever you like lol! I wish I had a close friend especially one who was getting married or is married to help! Keep your head up though, I’m sure it is going to be great! 

The weddingbee has been awesome so far,  especially the local boards! It is nice to see bees getting married in your area and sharing ideas – especially if they are getting married at the same venue ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post your dress, ring, centerpiece ideas, we love it ๐Ÿ™‚ 

Post # 9
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308 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

@UJSMCWG06:  When you click on boards and then wedding related it should show all the topics.  Dress, decor, ceremony, ring, reception – whatever interests you :).  

I have started my own threads for when I was going dress shopping, or needed centerpiece ideas.  (I needed all the help I could get) Or just read others and post your pictures! If you just want an opinion or can’t make up your mind the polls are great.  They helped pick my wedding shoes! 

For the local I just click boards, local, south and then S. Carolina or wherever you’re from or getting married ๐Ÿ™‚ 

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