Post # 1
Hiya I posted earlier this week that my boyfriend had said he had a proposal planned ,this morning it got the better of me (I’m a very anxious person ) so I asked if he deffo had it planned or not , his reply ” I’ve got some ideas ” ! So in fact he hasn’t planned it at all just pondered it . Feeling deflated now 🙁
Post # 2
You just need to stop pressing it and relax. Give him some time to do it on his own, try to focus on other things in the meantime.
Post # 3
Planning and pondering go hand in hand. Give him a little time to do it in his own way and make it special!
Post # 4
Bee, it makes so much sense that you feel deflated. You were – understandably so – excited by his statement that he had a proposal planned! And, I learned from a similar conversation with my own SO this past week that our boys really value surprising us. I wonder if your SO may not want to let on any further information about his plans. I know it’s hard, but try your best to sit back and trust that he is planning something grand for you!
Post # 5
he has something planned for you and he’s decided what the surprise is. He’s keeping it a surprise so he’s saying he has some ideas to throw you off guard. Start the countdown bee! 🙂