Post # 1

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Newbee
Hiya I posted earlier this week that my boyfriend had said he had a proposal planned ,this morning it got the better of me (I’m a very anxious person ) so I asked if he deffo had it planned or not , his reply ” I’ve got some ideas ” ! So in fact he hasn’t planned it at all just pondered it . Feeling deflated now 🙁
Post # 2

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Busy bee
You just need to stop pressing it and relax. Give him some time to do it on his own, try to focus on other things in the meantime.
Post # 3

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Helper bee
Yeep : Planning and pondering go hand in hand. Give him a little time to do it in his own way and make it special!
Post # 4

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Newbee
Bee, it makes so much sense that you feel deflated. You were – understandably so – excited by his statement that he had a proposal planned! And, I learned from a similar conversation with my own SO this past week that our boys really value surprising us. I wonder if your SO may not want to let on any further information about his plans. I know it’s hard, but try your best to sit back and trust that he is planning something grand for you!
Post # 5

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Worker bee
Yeep : he has something planned for you and he’s decided what the surprise is. He’s keeping it a surprise so he’s saying he has some ideas to throw you off guard. Start the countdown bee! 🙂