(Closed) No proposal and the jeweler is stressing my man out!

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
1416 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@steelframe:  Aw that’s beyond cute! I know it was hard for you because I’ve been there but to have such a supportive SO like that! Sooo cute!! I loved when he said I wish it would be now and you said he was in tears! Ugh my heart!!

  I would tell SO to call the jewler and say listen your taking way to long and I would like it by X date , you have broken timelines and I am expecting to propose soon and you keep making me have to push it off. ( Something to those lines lol)

  Good luck!!!!

Post # 4
289 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: April 2014

What a sweet man! 🙂

I agree that he should give the jeweler a timeline. He paid for it, this is his moment, she shouldn’t be dicking around and not providing him with the ring that he is entitled to. If I was him, I would have a few strong, but not overly rude words with her.

Hope everything works out soon so that you and your SO can be planning with a ring! 🙂

Post # 5
2066 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: February 2014

Gotta tell you I LOL’d at his stretching! Sorry the jeweler is being sucky! At least you know it is coming sooo soon and this’ll just be a super cute, funny story to tell your kids (if you wanna have em!) 

Post # 7
699 posts
Busy bee

@steelframe:  Hi hi, i thought the trying to look sexy was awesome, good for you. I’ve been working on my face skin , clearing it up & tryingto grow my hair lol. i know it sounds crazy but i want longer hair for my wedding so ina weird way I’m hoping he’ll wait til 2013 or later lol. It super sucks about the ring & the timeline for the ring. I doubt it’s intentional. Chin up & know that your proposal will be amazing & feel great!!

Post # 9
657 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

So I guess I was confused. You arent engaged but have a date set for next January? And you thought he was going to propose by the end of the month, but he didn’t. Did he tell you he was going to propose by the end of the month? If he did, then I am also confused about the part where he says that he doesn’t want to tell you enything about it. 

With that said, as confused as i was, the strethcing out the ol’ muscles about made me fall out of chair laughing. lol Sorry. I am sure you were diapointed, but you have to admit, that is kind of funny.

Just relax and when it happens, it will be great. You too already obviously know that you want to be together, so really this is just a minor piece of the puzzle. Don’t put too much pressure on the situation and let yourself be surprised. 

Post # 11
657 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

@steelframe:  I hope you are able to. I would hate for you to miss out on enjoying the ride due to the stress and the expectation of it all. Trust me I am a high strung person as well and sometimes, calming down is just out of the question. lol. Hope that everything goes smoothly for you from here on out.

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