(Closed) No proposal yet but he knows about my secret wedding binder…

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 4
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

ahhhhh the wedding binder! πŸ˜‰ lol

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2013

hehe I am glad he has given you the go ahead!

Post # 7
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2013

We’re in the same crazy boat, haha. I’ve planned a TON, started working on centerpieces, and he gave me the go ahead to start working on our registry [which I promptly did that night]. He’s paying on the ring, so I know it’s coming. It’s all very exciting, isn’t it?!

Post # 8
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Newbee

OMG, someone else in my boat!!!   πŸ™‚  I’ve gotten the same thing from my Boyfriend or Best Friend.. .I’ve been told to go ahead and start planning/calling places and getting ideas!  Seems crazy to me, because I feel a little weird doing so without the ring……. but I too have a wedding notebook/binder, and also a master excel sheet with all sorts of ideas and the other day I was even working on a seating chart!  LOL!  Am I crazy?!    Is it bad luck to start planning now?  Its supposed to be happening any time now… and I always thought…. “why not get a jump start on the planning?” right?  πŸ˜‰

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2018

Aw congratulations.  SO is very “meh” about my planning ways (inspiration pics etc).  But he doesn’t mind.  Once the initial I’m-so-embarassed-for-admitting-this wore off we talked about it.  We’ve even agreed on a few things.  Sometimes he does tell me to calm down though…

Embarassed

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I’ve been doing alot of research in what I want for my wedding. I actually want to elope but want a few wedding related details. We talk weddings alot, even though I’m still waiting. He wants me to be surprised so we don’t talk about the ring, but mention details about what we both want. Have fun planning, and hope you get your ring soon!!

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@ladyartichoke:  That is exactly where my SO and I are. He typically just humors me, but sometimes he tells me I really need to calm down and chill out. He sometimes insists on reminding me it isn’t about the wedding but more about the reason for the wedding.

Post # 13
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2012

I love your story!  I have a wedding notebook too, but I bought the next day after getting the proposal and ring, along with a bunch of bridal magazines.  It sounds like your ring will be coming soon, congratulations!

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