(Closed) No ring bearer or flower girl.

posted 9 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
1006 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

Is your dad walking you down the aisle? Maybe your younger brother could be an usher and escort your mom to her seat before the ceremony begins.

I’m not having a ring bearer or flower girl either and my brother is walking my mom down the aisle.

Post # 5
184 posts
Blushing bee

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My daughter had an extremely large wedding as did two of our friend’s daughers and none of them had flower girls or ring bearers.  I see it as a growing trend and people wish to rid their wedding of the distraction provided by the children.

In most weddings I have been involved in, the ring bearer NEVER actually touches or uses the actual rings. 

It’s usually the responsibility of the maid of honor and best man to actually hold on to the rings.

Post # 6
1643 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: January 2015

To be honest with you – your brother will probably thank you for not getting him “involved” !!  You know what teenage boys can be like!  Maybe talk to him, and ask him what he wants to do.  He could always wear a matching suit to the groomsman, but sit up the front with your family.  That way he looks involved, but he doesn’t actually have to do anything 🙂

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