(Closed) No ring, or gift for our anniversary

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Do you think he is throwing you off or something? 

Post # 4
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Busy bee

@Future_Ms.Bostonceltics:  Not even a card and he is still alive!?!?!?! Man I would be furious. Did you ask him why no card or gift? I know you are mainly annoyed because no ring but at least you know it’s coming

Post # 5
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

well it’s only 7 pm, is it possible it’s in the making?

Post # 6
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: March 2012

Are you sure he doesn’t have something up his sleeve? You’d think he’d at least get a card or something but maybe he’s trying to throw you off?

Also, I know that lots of us think that holidays and anniversaries are prime days to get engaged but a lot of guys I know are very anti-other-important-days to propose. My Fiance proposed on a semi-random day in March. My Brother-In-Law proposed on a random Thursday.

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

whatever you do try to stay calm…  IF he is up to something you dont want to ruin it so sending calm vibes to help you get through the next few hours/days

Post # 9
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

double post

Post # 10
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: June 2017 - Vegas Wedings

Hopefully he has something else planned… *fingers crossed*

If not, I say let loose on him. Sometimes men need a huge kick in the butt.

Post # 11
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with PP, it sounds like a set-up. If he’s one to normally get you a card or gift on occasions like this, I’d try to give him the benefit of the doubt!

Post # 12
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

you can always try to force his  hand. go out, go to the movies or the store or something and see if he tries to hold you back.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

I think you need to stay calm tonight and if by tomorrow, still nothing, THEN have a go at him. Don’t do it tonight in case, as the other bees have said, he has something up his sleeve….

Post # 15
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Bumble bee

Wow you’re a stronger woman than I am…I don’t know if I could chill when it’s our anniversary and he hasn’t even acknowledged it!! ah :-O you poor thing. I am sending positive vibes your way!!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee

@mcklough:  Ok good, glad you pointed out the time because I was wondering how late it is where OP is. (For me, it is now Thursday.)

OP, it is EARLY and you’re probably not reading this as you’re being proposed to right now.

If it doesn’t happen tonight, talk to him (maybe tomorrow?) about why no card, etc.. Maybe don’t assume you’re getting nothing until today is up, though.

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